what would you do ladies?

[Kimberley]

Our biggest mistake was moving down here to be close to my in-laws. They are a royal pain in the arse! If pops is out of town (always doing whatever he wants), it's my husband's "job" to go over there to take care of their animals and whatever else my MIL needs. Makes me so mad. It's not like their disabled...they're RETIRED!!!! I really want to move from here in a couple of years. My husband completely understands. I feel for ya!

I guess it is a good practice is to expect little give alot ...and always be willing to recieve .

Best made plans often fail .letting oneself have every moment of joy we can is an art ...be artful .live your love ~

[Gina]

I agree with some of the girls above enjoy the time you have alone for there are few and far in between. When you are married many years you want them to go get lost for awhile.. lol I had a wonderful MIL who passed away over a year ago, now my FIL was a different story very demanding and critical. I learned to ignore him over the years and did what I wanted to do anyway. My FIL mellowed after my MIL passing. I lost both my parents and I do miss the times with them, as I think back, as you get older you realize that your spouse left his parents to marry, and now I have a son and someday I will be a MIL and I hope to be a nice one, providing that his wife respects me. It is a give and take, remember he loves his mom just as much as we women love ours. I have a daughter to, so that rule will apply to her future MIL...lol