Not really sure how to go about this

[teri88]

Janet has a good point, make the exercise a couples thing and really stick to it. You don't have to tell your husband he's gained weight, believe me....he knows! I don't know how old your baby is, but it's not unusual to lose your sex drive after having a baby....you are tired and focused on the child. You need to turn your focus back on your relationship. You married this man, so you must have loved him at some point. Try reminding yourself why you fell in love in the first place. Every day find something positive to say to him. It might feel forced inthe begining but you'll be surprised how quickly it will become a habit. If you fell in love with him once, you can do it again. You really can! Good luck!