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Old 06-22-2008, 11:43 AM   #14
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Oh Diana, I know that really hurts! I can't say anything that will make it hurt less, I'm so sorry you are going through this. And when you see her hurt your children...well, I know the mama bear in you wants to ring her neck!

My BIL who has been in the family as long as I have said some very hateful things at my 40th birthday party. It just shattered me. It was 9 years ago and it still hurts. I decided to comepletly ignore him at every family party. I would just look him in the face and walk away. The problem was every time I did that it brought the anger back inside of me. I finally realized that he just wasn't worth it. I let go of the anger, I'm civil to him if I have to see him. It's helped me alot because I don't waste my energy on hating him anymore. Don't let her have that much power over you, she's not worth it. You are a wonderfull person and you know what? It's her loss!
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