Sorry I've been so scarce

Marilyn · 07-01-2008, 03:39 AM

Oh, ((((((((((Tink))))))))))), what a terrible thing to have happen, and to find.

We all know that you are doing your very best and would have done anything to prevent it. Don't beat yourself up too much over this. You can make yourself sick going over senerios, and you are too important to too many people, and have a lot more of life to enjoy. What happened is in the past and all we can do is grieve and move on a little wiser. Sounds like the pups are old enough to be placed?

Please know that we all care very much about you and are reaching through this screen to give you a heartfelt hug.

Janet · 07-01-2008, 03:44 AM

Tink, you already know how I feel. My heart aches knowing you had to go through this. It will get better, you just have to give it time. We're here for you.

Tiramisu · 07-01-2008, 05:06 AM

Tink, I'm sorry for your loss. Stop beating yourself up and get some rest.

Dobie · 07-01-2008, 05:13 AM

I am so sorry for your loss - please stop beating yourself up.

teri88 · 07-01-2008, 05:18 AM

Oh Tink, I am so sorry for your loss. If anyone tells you they are "only dogs" you have my permission to kick their butts! You love your dogs and they are members of your family. I'm so upset for you. Please don't blame yourself, it was a freak accident, nothing you could, or should, have done differently. You are in my prayers.

Gina · 07-01-2008, 05:50 AM

Oh Tink I am sorry to hear this I am sitting here with tears in my eyes.. Please don't blame youself it was a freaky accident.. Your a good person whom loves her dogs and treats them like her babies.. They are not only dogs they are members of the family like Teri mentioned... Take care and try to get some sleep.

Tink · 07-01-2008, 09:23 AM

Thanks all
I did sleep a bit more last night which of course helped.
I'm waiting for my puppy person to show up and trying to just keep busy. This buyer has been here before and was really a fun outgoing person, so I'm actually looking forward to her visit.

Taurus Babe · 07-01-2008, 06:34 PM

Tink, I'm so sorry to hear about this. That must have been so horrible to see. I hope the puppies can bring a light back into your life.

Emmsmom · 07-01-2008, 07:05 PM

I was so sorry to hear about Bella. I am just glad the puppies are doing so well.((HUGS))

AngieDoogles · 07-01-2008, 07:27 PM

Oh Tink, I am so sorry! I know the others have said this, but this is not your fault! I hope everything goes smoothly with the puppy buyers. I'm sure they'll see how loving and caring you are and how much your dogs mean to you. *hugs*

Forgivenmom5 · 07-02-2008, 07:05 PM

I am so sorry Tink!! To lose one is bad enough but to find her that way had to be horrible. Things happen no matter how hard we try. All your dogs know how much you love them.

judy · 07-04-2008, 10:33 AM

Oh Tink. I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you, losing Bella like that. I'm praying for your healing to be as easy as possible.

07-01-2008, 03:39 AM	#1
Marilyn Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Texas Posts: 4,907	Oh, ((((((((((Tink))))))))))), what a terrible thing to have happen, and to find. We all know that you are doing your very best and would have done anything to prevent it. Don't beat yourself up too much over this. You can make yourself sick going over senerios, and you are too important to too many people, and have a lot more of life to enjoy. What happened is in the past and all we can do is grieve and move on a little wiser. Sounds like the pups are old enough to be placed? Please know that we all care very much about you and are reaching through this screen to give you a heartfelt hug. __________________ Marilyn If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32

07-01-2008, 03:44 AM	#2
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Tink, you already know how I feel. My heart aches knowing you had to go through this. It will get better, you just have to give it time. We're here for you. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

07-01-2008, 05:06 AM	#3
Tiramisu Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: New Caney, Texas (outside Houston) Posts: 1,776	Tink, I'm sorry for your loss. Stop beating yourself up and get some rest. __________________ SANDY

07-01-2008, 05:18 AM	#5
teri88 Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: New Jersey Posts: 808	Oh Tink, I am so sorry for your loss. If anyone tells you they are "only dogs" you have my permission to kick their butts! You love your dogs and they are members of your family. I'm so upset for you. Please don't blame yourself, it was a freak accident, nothing you could, or should, have done differently. You are in my prayers. __________________ TERI Of course I'm in shape. Isn't round a shape?

07-01-2008, 09:23 AM	#7
Tink Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Rural Wisconsin Posts: 3,707	Thanks all I did sleep a bit more last night which of course helped. I'm waiting for my puppy person to show up and trying to just keep busy. This buyer has been here before and was really a fun outgoing person, so I'm actually looking forward to her visit. __________________ 'A simple way to take measure of a country is to look at how many want in.. And how many want out.' England 's Prime Minister Tony Blair'

07-01-2008, 05:13 AM	#4
Dobie Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: New Hampshire Posts: 1,075	I am so sorry for your loss - please stop beating yourself up.

07-01-2008, 05:50 AM	#6
Gina Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 6,025	Oh Tink I am sorry to hear this I am sitting here with tears in my eyes.. Please don't blame youself it was a freaky accident.. Your a good person whom loves her dogs and treats them like her babies.. They are not only dogs they are members of the family like Teri mentioned... Take care and try to get some sleep.

07-01-2008, 06:34 PM	#8
Taurus Babe Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Canada Posts: 668	Tink, I'm so sorry to hear about this. That must have been so horrible to see. I hope the puppies can bring a light back into your life. __________________ Taurus Babe aka Thorsmomma

07-01-2008, 07:05 PM	#9
Emmsmom Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 612	I was so sorry to hear about Bella. I am just glad the puppies are doing so well.((HUGS)) __________________ MICHELLE

07-01-2008, 07:27 PM	#10
AngieDoogles Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 6,509	Oh Tink, I am so sorry! I know the others have said this, but this is not your fault! I hope everything goes smoothly with the puppy buyers. I'm sure they'll see how loving and caring you are and how much your dogs mean to you. hugs __________________ "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." ~MT

07-02-2008, 07:05 PM	#11
Forgivenmom5 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 1,409	I am so sorry Tink!! To lose one is bad enough but to find her that way had to be horrible. Things happen no matter how hard we try. All your dogs know how much you love them. __________________ ~Debbie~

07-04-2008, 10:33 AM	#12
judy Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Denver, NY Posts: 8,097	Oh Tink. I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you, losing Bella like that. I'm praying for your healing to be as easy as possible. __________________ *Judy*

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