male mucky mags

[Necee419]

Originally Posted by RLC12345678

I know my hubby doesn't have any videos or mags, but I honestly wouldn't care too much if he did....as long as he was honest about it. However, if it ever came to the point where he was looking at mags or videos over having sex with me, now that is where we would have a problem. As long as looking at them doesn't interfere with our relationship and he makes me feel secure and comfortable, I'm cool with it.

I agree. As long as your partner doesn't prefer the mags over you, its ok. However I think that if the woman feels really insecure about this and expresses that to her husband, he should respect her wishes and refrain from looking at those things. I truly believe anything goes in a relationship, so long as BOTH people are on the same page.

I don't have a problem with them in general but I don't really care for my hubby looking at them. My reason is though is that he wouldn't like me looking at something like that so I don't think its fair that he could look at them. Same with strip clubs he would have a problem if I went so I just think that since he doesn't want me going (not that this issue has actually came up in real life, just discussions) then he should have enough respect for me not to do something he wouldn't like, if you can understand any of that. We watch movies together so if its something that we do together then it doesn't bother me but just him doing it, I'm not a big fan.....

yeah i agree with most of whats been said, if its not a secret and its something that ok with both partners then there isnt a problem with it.

[Amber_lv]

Originally Posted by sashajade

yeah i agree with most of whats been said, if its not a secret and its something that ok with both partners then there isnt a problem with it.

I agree i don't care as long as he still wants me lol

[Taurus Babe]

I'm sure he has some and I'm fine with it. He's with me right??? I think if they love you then they love you and if they wanna live in a little fantisy world with mags or videos then let it be. Actually in my last relationship I bought him a video...
Like Nikki said, if you do have a problem with it, then he should respect it...

Originally Posted by Taurus Babe

I'm sure he has some and I'm fine with it. He's with me right??? I think if they love you then they love you and if they wanna live in a little fantisy world with mags or videos then let it be. Actually in my last relationship I bought him a video...
Like Nikki said, if you do have a problem with it, then he should respect it...

yeah agree with you there, i wouldnt mind if my other half had any but if i did have a problem with it and he still looked at them i wouldnt be happy about that.

I give you ladies a lot of credit! you are seem much less jealous than me. I was in a long relationship before where it didn't bother me & in fact we did share in the 'dirty stuff' sometimes BUT this guy complemented me all the time & it was something we did together. With my current fiance it is a different story. He's not that into sex, so when he makes google eyes at any type of girlie thing than it really bothers me. His lack of interest makes me insecure.....