Body Image Flaws And Your Hubby.

I'm not married yet so I can't exactly contribute to this, but I do have a story. lol I was dating this guy for about 3 years and somewhere in those 3 years he told me I was chubby and told me that I should lose some weight. I was about 145lbs at the time...that's not over weight OR chubby when you are 5'7. I didn't look chubby, I just ate a lot. I have a high metabolism. Things kinda got rough about that time and a while later we had broken up. I'll never be with someone that says stuff like that. It really hurt my self esteem and it took a while to get over. The current guy I'm dating would never say anything like that. When he heard that story he actually got mad about it. *sigh* i learned my lesson about dating jerks.

my fiance & I call eachother all kinds of names like chubby butt, fatso & even reply to eachothers statements with things like "so, at least I'm not as fat as you" or "so, at least my butt doesn't weigh 100 pounds like yours". But its all in good fun! We honestly eat lunch & dinner together everyday so if I pig out, so does he so to speak. Plus, we work out together. Neither of us is skinny or fat....just right in between. Now, if I ever thought he really meant it....I'd beat him up!