I am new here, and have a question

[donna1990]

Originally Posted by hilda624

Hi I came across this site, while having some issues. I hope I can find some kind of reliefe withing your posts. Here it goes. six years ago, I married a man, much younger than me, we had a kid, who is now four years old. Noone knew there was such difference in age. After the baby was born, I developed a sleeping desorder, that aged me a bit. Now , the age difference is abvious, and on top of that, he wants another child. He is in the military, and we are not living toguether at the moment, but he is coming this weekend, just so I can get pregnant!!! He has always suported me financialy as well. He and me agreed, that I will stay home to take care of my daughter and the house. I still don't look my age, but I can't help having a mayor complex, specially when I go to his familly's reunions (they always bring it up). Am I the only one? is there anyone else with the same problem? It is the second time I am actualy talking about this. Always avoided the subject.

Welcome to 4WT,
If you love each other, forget about what other people say. Maybe some members in his family are jealous that you don't look your age. When they bring it up, tell them that "age is all in the mind". Have you told your husband how you feel? Maybe he could speak up for you.
Get over the complex work on your self esteem. Look at all of the famous people that are married to people much younger.
Good Luck,