For My Mother

Janet · 09-15-2008, 05:17 AM

Tonight my Mom will be spending the night with me. I have to have her to Lafayette by 7:00 AM for her surgery so it will be easier for both of us to wake up and leave from here. She will have a local, but it usually puts Mom completely out. She is having that fistula thing put in her arm.

They won't know till they get in, if her veins or whatever it is (having a hard time thinking this morning) will be big enough. If not, I'm not sure what they will do. I am feeling very nervous about this. I know that it's not all that dangerous (all surgeries are) but I'm really uneasy. I trust the Drs. so does Mom so that isn't it. I won't tell my Mom how I feel because I know she is nervous enough, so I needed to tell you.

Please keep my Mom in your prayers tomorrow, pray that they will be able to insert the fistula with no problems and that she will be okay. I just keep crying so I guess I need to get it out of my system before Mom comes this evening. Thank you my wonderful friends...I love you.

katcarasella · 09-15-2008, 05:26 AM

Janet, I am praying that everything works out for your Mom, know that you both will be in my thoughts.
Hugs to you both.
Your friend, Kat

Janet · 09-15-2008, 05:36 AM

You're in my prayers too Kat. I know you'll be fine after your surgery, so don't worry. Let us know or have one of the kids let us know how you are. Tell them not to take any of the onriness out...that it works just fine...lol

Lindsey · 09-15-2008, 06:57 AM

Your mom is in my thoughts Janet. Stay strong for her!

DianaB · 09-15-2008, 07:51 AM

Janet, you and your Mom are in my prayers.

HALEY · 09-15-2008, 10:25 AM

Janet, your Mom will be in our prayers....

lynne b · 09-15-2008, 02:47 PM

Janet I will be praying that all goes well for your mom tomorrow.
Friends Lynne

gja1000 · 09-15-2008, 02:52 PM

Janet,
I hope that all goes well tomorrow. I think part of your uneasiness might be the results of the procedure, rather than the procedure. If the fistula is in place, then your mom will (most likely) start dialysis, which means her kidneys have failed and she is permanently on dialysis, she has a permanent chronic and disabling condition. She seems OK right now, but with the fistula, things are set in motion that can't be taken back.

Maybe I'm just making things up - but the acknowledgement of a serious chronic illness like kidney failure, is not easy for you or her.

I'll be thinking of both of you tomorrow.

Janet · 09-15-2008, 03:05 PM

Thank you everyone...thank you to Gayle for your knowledge. I appreciate you all so much, you really have no idea. You're my family.

Shada · 09-15-2008, 03:18 PM

Saying a prayer all goes well.

[HUGS]

Marilyn · 09-15-2008, 03:19 PM

Janet, you and your family will be in our prayers. Let us know how things go!!

2tiredmom · 09-15-2008, 03:30 PM

My prayers are going up for your mom Janet. Please let us know how she's doing.

Janet · 09-15-2008, 04:33 PM

Right now she's in watching her game shows...lol. The boys are at scouts and well, ya know where I am...lol. As soon as I can get to a computer tomorrow, I'll let you all know how things went.

DianaB · 09-16-2008, 08:39 AM

I'm waiting for news, Janet. I just wanted to let you know that you and your Mom are in my thoughts and prayers.

Forgivenmom5 · 09-16-2008, 02:38 PM

Hope the procedure went well and your Mom is doing fine!

09-15-2008, 05:17 AM	#1
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	For My Mother Tonight my Mom will be spending the night with me. I have to have her to Lafayette by 7:00 AM for her surgery so it will be easier for both of us to wake up and leave from here. She will have a local, but it usually puts Mom completely out. She is having that fistula thing put in her arm. They won't know till they get in, if her veins or whatever it is (having a hard time thinking this morning) will be big enough. If not, I'm not sure what they will do. I am feeling very nervous about this. I know that it's not all that dangerous (all surgeries are) but I'm really uneasy. I trust the Drs. so does Mom so that isn't it. I won't tell my Mom how I feel because I know she is nervous enough, so I needed to tell you. Please keep my Mom in your prayers tomorrow, pray that they will be able to insert the fistula with no problems and that she will be okay. I just keep crying so I guess I need to get it out of my system before Mom comes this evening. Thank you my wonderful friends...I love you. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

09-15-2008, 05:26 AM	#2
katcarasella KAT'S KRAZY KORNER Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Chicago Posts: 3,031	Janet, I am praying that everything works out for your Mom, know that you both will be in my thoughts. Hugs to you both. Your friend, Kat __________________ A friend accepts us as we are yet helps us to be what we should. Kat

09-15-2008, 05:36 AM	#3
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	You're in my prayers too Kat. I know you'll be fine after your surgery, so don't worry. Let us know or have one of the kids let us know how you are. Tell them not to take any of the onriness out...that it works just fine...lol __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

09-15-2008, 06:57 AM	#4
Lindsey Donating 4WT Talker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Saskatchewan Posts: 3,764	Your mom is in my thoughts Janet. Stay strong for her! __________________ Lindsey "I don't mind living in a man's world as long as I can be a woman in it..." -Marilyn Monroe

09-15-2008, 07:51 AM	#5
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	Janet, you and your Mom are in my prayers. __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

09-15-2008, 10:25 AM	#6
HALEY Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 2,147	Janet, your Mom will be in our prayers.... __________________ PROUD MOMMY

09-15-2008, 02:47 PM	#7
lynne b Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 614	Janet I will be praying that all goes well for your mom tomorrow. Friends Lynne __________________ 'I try to take one day at a time -- but sometimes several days attack me at once.' Last edited by lynne b; 09-15-2008 at 02:47 PM. Reason: spelling

09-15-2008, 02:52 PM	#8
gja1000 Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Central Texas Posts: 5,717	Janet, I hope that all goes well tomorrow. I think part of your uneasiness might be the results of the procedure, rather than the procedure. If the fistula is in place, then your mom will (most likely) start dialysis, which means her kidneys have failed and she is permanently on dialysis, she has a permanent chronic and disabling condition. She seems OK right now, but with the fistula, things are set in motion that can't be taken back. Maybe I'm just making things up - but the acknowledgement of a serious chronic illness like kidney failure, is not easy for you or her. I'll be thinking of both of you tomorrow. __________________ Gayle

09-15-2008, 03:05 PM	#9
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Thank you everyone...thank you to Gayle for your knowledge. I appreciate you all so much, you really have no idea. You're my family. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

09-15-2008, 03:18 PM	#10
Shada Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 1,228	Saying a prayer all goes well. [HUGS]

09-15-2008, 03:19 PM	#11
Marilyn Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Texas Posts: 4,907	Janet, you and your family will be in our prayers. Let us know how things go!! __________________ Marilyn If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32

09-15-2008, 03:30 PM	#12
2tiredmom Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 1,367	My prayers are going up for your mom Janet. Please let us know how she's doing. __________________ The real measure of a woman's wealth is what she has invested in eternity. Linda aka 2tiredmom

09-15-2008, 04:33 PM	#13
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Right now she's in watching her game shows...lol. The boys are at scouts and well, ya know where I am...lol. As soon as I can get to a computer tomorrow, I'll let you all know how things went. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

09-16-2008, 08:39 AM	#14
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	I'm waiting for news, Janet. I just wanted to let you know that you and your Mom are in my thoughts and prayers. __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

09-16-2008, 02:38 PM	#15
Forgivenmom5 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 1,409	Hope the procedure went well and your Mom is doing fine! __________________ ~Debbie~

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