Help!!! Dating anxiety - Page 3

Gina · 10-13-2008, 07:27 AM

Judy it's well past 24 hrs. since your date.. Where are you????? Geeze I hope that you didn't elope?? lol

Come on woman touch base with us!! We are dying to know the scooops....

Janet · 10-13-2008, 08:35 AM

Alright....we've had enough of this....Judy....front and center right now!!! Where are you?????

DianaB · 10-13-2008, 10:50 AM

I can't believe that you've left us hanging!!! Maybe we need to report her missing to the police!!!! How many hours are we suppose to wait?

Shada · 10-13-2008, 01:02 PM

JUDY!!!

Beginning to worry here... please check in with ASAP!!

Gina · 10-13-2008, 03:06 PM

Hmmmmmmmmm still no sight of Judy??? Either she had a great time and is recouping or the man was a nightmare and is lost for words. lol

Come on Judy now we are all thinking that you got kidnapped!!

Gina · 10-14-2008, 04:07 AM

Day 2 still nooo Judy!!!

Ponyup · 10-14-2008, 05:09 AM

Does anyone have her phone number? I'm a little worried she took off to meet a stranger & hasn't been back since. Judy....come back.

Mandy · 10-14-2008, 05:25 AM

It's not like Judy to stay away without updating us, unless she has no internet connection.
I hope all is well with her, and that theres nothing serious going on there, please if anyone has her # give her a call, or PM me the # and i will call.

Janet · 10-14-2008, 07:26 AM

I'll try to give her a call as soon as my phone is charged. I sure hope she's alright.

DianaB · 10-14-2008, 08:34 AM

Judy, we're all worried about you. I hope that this is just a case of your computer being down.

Gina · 10-14-2008, 09:38 AM

I am sure she is alright.. Janet call or shall I ?

Marilyn · 10-14-2008, 10:55 AM

Judy, OH, Judy.......

Okay, I can't take it anymore!!! Maybe it was so special that she wants to keep it secret. Or on the other hand, maybe there just aren't words....

At least let us know you're okay!!!

judy · 10-14-2008, 12:27 PM

I'm so sorry! I was busy all day yesterday, and went to my grand children's school this morning. I promise I will keep you updated more quickly nest time.
(Unless I do elope)

The video of the date is at.......

:y elrotflmao:

I love the questionnaire idea though.

So - the date was really nice! I met him in Delhi, a nice town almost in the middle of where we both live. What a nice man! He's very good looking - salt and pepper wavy hair, blue eyes, not gorgeous, but nice looking. He's very intelligent, very laid back - what a nice quality! I had forgotten, but you really don't have to talk much on a date. Men love to talk about themselves. I didn't have that much I wanted to say anyway. I'm kind of bored listening to stories of my stuff - after all, I already know all about them. Believe it or not, I actually don'thave a lot to say when I first meet someone.

Anyway, we had lunch in a cute little cafe, and then went for a walk. The weather being so beautiful, we ended up sitting on a bench under a gorgeous tree and chatting. I don't think I'll be hearing from him again. He has 4 children from his ex-marriage. Two of them are in their twenties and live in Brooklyn!
His two teenage daughters live with him every other week. I like that - a family man, but when he said his youngest is twelve, I told him that my oldest granddaughter is 11. He didn't say anything, but when we parted to go home, he said he would write to me online. I would think the next step would be a phone call if there was interest.

I think he's very nice, but that we just are in two very different places in our lives. I don't really know what he thinks. He did say that he's very happy being single, wants to take things very slowly when he meets people, etc., etc. I like that too. Clingy men are to be avoided!

What I really got out of this was that I enjoy dating a lot, I like being with a man, there are some very wonderful people out there, and I'm looking forward to meeting someone else to go out with soon.

Sorry about the video - really!

Tiramisu · 10-14-2008, 12:27 PM

She was out there posting on all the threads except this one. What a tease!

Mandy · 10-14-2008, 12:41 PM

Glad to hear from you!!!!!
At least Judy, you have made a new friend, if things dont "work out" you will have a nice online buddy to chat with.

It's great, you had a nice time!

10-13-2008, 08:35 AM	#32
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Alright....we've had enough of this....Judy....front and center right now!!! Where are you????? __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

10-13-2008, 10:50 AM	#33
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	I can't believe that you've left us hanging!!! Maybe we need to report her missing to the police!!!! How many hours are we suppose to wait? __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

10-14-2008, 05:25 AM	#38
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	It's not like Judy to stay away without updating us, unless she has no internet connection. I hope all is well with her, and that theres nothing serious going on there, please if anyone has her # give her a call, or PM me the # and i will call. __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

10-14-2008, 07:26 AM	#39
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	I'll try to give her a call as soon as my phone is charged. I sure hope she's alright. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

10-14-2008, 08:34 AM	#40
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	Judy, we're all worried about you. I hope that this is just a case of your computer being down. __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

10-13-2008, 07:27 AM	#31
Gina Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 6,025	Judy it's well past 24 hrs. since your date.. Where are you????? Geeze I hope that you didn't elope?? lol Come on woman touch base with us!! We are dying to know the scooops....

10-13-2008, 01:02 PM	#34
Shada Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 1,228	JUDY!!! Beginning to worry here... please check in with ASAP!!

10-13-2008, 03:06 PM	#35
Gina Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 6,025	Hmmmmmmmmm still no sight of Judy??? Either she had a great time and is recouping or the man was a nightmare and is lost for words. lol Come on Judy now we are all thinking that you got kidnapped!!

10-14-2008, 04:07 AM	#36
Gina Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 6,025	Day 2 still nooo Judy!!!

10-14-2008, 05:09 AM	#37
Ponyup Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 659	Does anyone have her phone number? I'm a little worried she took off to meet a stranger & hasn't been back since. Judy....come back.

10-14-2008, 09:38 AM	#41
Gina Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 6,025	I am sure she is alright.. Janet call or shall I ?

10-14-2008, 10:55 AM	#42
Marilyn Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Texas Posts: 4,907	Judy, OH, Judy....... Okay, I can't take it anymore!!! Maybe it was so special that she wants to keep it secret. Or on the other hand, maybe there just aren't words.... At least let us know you're okay!!! __________________ Marilyn If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32

10-14-2008, 12:27 PM	#43
judy Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Denver, NY Posts: 8,097	I'm so sorry! I was busy all day yesterday, and went to my grand children's school this morning. I promise I will keep you updated more quickly nest time. (Unless I do elope) The video of the date is at.......:y elrotflmao:I love the questionnaire idea though. So - the date was really nice! I met him in Delhi, a nice town almost in the middle of where we both live. What a nice man! He's very good looking - salt and pepper wavy hair, blue eyes, not gorgeous, but nice looking. He's very intelligent, very laid back - what a nice quality! I had forgotten, but you really don't have to talk much on a date. Men love to talk about themselves. I didn't have that much I wanted to say anyway. I'm kind of bored listening to stories of my stuff - after all, I already know all about them. Believe it or not, I actually don'thave a lot to say when I first meet someone. Anyway, we had lunch in a cute little cafe, and then went for a walk. The weather being so beautiful, we ended up sitting on a bench under a gorgeous tree and chatting. I don't think I'll be hearing from him again. He has 4 children from his ex-marriage. Two of them are in their twenties and live in Brooklyn! His two teenage daughters live with him every other week. I like that - a family man, but when he said his youngest is twelve, I told him that my oldest granddaughter is 11. He didn't say anything, but when we parted to go home, he said he would write to me online. I would think the next step would be a phone call if there was interest. I think he's very nice, but that we just are in two very different places in our lives. I don't really know what he thinks. He did say that he's very happy being single, wants to take things very slowly when he meets people, etc., etc. I like that too. Clingy men are to be avoided! What I really got out of this was that I enjoy dating a lot, I like being with a man, there are some very wonderful people out there, and I'm looking forward to meeting someone else to go out with soon. Sorry about the video - really! __________________ *Judy*

10-14-2008, 12:27 PM	#44
Tiramisu Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: New Caney, Texas (outside Houston) Posts: 1,776	She was out there posting on all the threads except this one. What a tease! __________________ SANDY

10-14-2008, 12:41 PM	#45
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	Glad to hear from you!!!!! At least Judy, you have made a new friend, if things dont "work out" you will have a nice online buddy to chat with. It's great, you had a nice time! __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

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