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10-27-2008, 12:32 PM
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Thanks Mandy. I just all of a sudden feel FREE. I really do like Kyle and I hope someday we can be friends, and with all my heart I hope he finds someone better for him than I am. I want him to be happy more than anything. That's my one comfort in seeing how badly he's hurt now... I was hurting him anyway by not giving him what he wanted and needed because I COULDN'T, my heart just wasn't in it. He is a good guy. He had problems with anger and jealousy, but he can change and he DID change. He just changed at the wrong time. I hope it won't be too long until he's happy again.
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10-27-2008, 01:34 PM
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Lindsey this has really been in the workings for quite some time. We all knew you were not very content in the relationship anymore. It's best to move on and let him move on as well. Might be kind of rough going, but it will get better.
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10-27-2008, 02:06 PM
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Lindsay,
Sometimes we have to hurt people in order for us to feel better about ourselves. I know it's rough but he will survive and so will you. I wish you the best.
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10-27-2008, 02:09 PM
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At lunch he decided he didn't want to see me to talk things over, because if he saw me he'd be a mess. That was fine with me, because I didn't want to deal with telling him in person again, and seeing how upset he is. But he just emailed me again and asked me if I could come over after work so we could talk about it. I know he will probably try to talk me out of it, but I think after dating almost a year and a half I owe it to him to meet face to face
 I hope I stay strong.
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10-27-2008, 05:22 PM
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It's the right thing - I've known for quite a while now - just by the way you write about Kyle and your relationship. It's time, even if you cave tonight, it's time........
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10-27-2008, 05:27 PM
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I got through it, it's done
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10-27-2008, 06:29 PM
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It's hard, take care.
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