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Old 11-09-2008, 06:53 AM   #1
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To clean or not to clean?

I feel like I should be cleaning my house up, but it doesn't make sense to do a hard cleaning. They're not finished and it will all get dirty again. I'm keeping up with the major dust and I think that's about all I can do.

It creates a lot of anxiety in me to have a messy, dirty house. I like it clean and neat at all times.

I am not a happy camper right now. I know I should be so glad that I'll have a really nice house, and I am. But...I don't have that now. What I have is a giant dirty mess.

Okay - I feel a little better now. I needed to vent a bit.
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Old 11-09-2008, 08:48 AM   #2
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If it really bothers you and you don't mind cleaning - or if cleaning makes you feel better - then go ahead and clean clean clean. Of course, it will get dirty again, but is your mental health more important than looking at a dirty house???

Me - I would never clean (other than keeping the dust at bay) - but it would not bother me in the least. But if it did, I'd go ahead and clean to my hearts content - because that would make me feel better and in this case, how YOU feel, is all that matters!
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Old 11-09-2008, 09:41 AM   #3
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If it really bothers you and you don't mind cleaning - or if cleaning makes you feel better - then go ahead and clean clean clean. Of course, it will get dirty again, but is your mental health more important than looking at a dirty house???

Me - I would never clean (other than keeping the dust at bay) - but it would not bother me in the least. But if it did, I'd go ahead and clean to my hearts content - because that would make me feel better and in this case, how YOU feel, is all that matters!
Therein lies the problem! I hate to actually clean. I just love to have a clean, neat house. I can't see paying my cleaning woman to come in in the middle of the work, and I really really can't see cleaning myself.

If I drank, I'd say it is margarita time.
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Old 11-09-2008, 01:35 PM   #4
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I know what you mean Judy. I like things nice and neat and clean too. I cleaned a bit today and I probably shouldn't have. I don't have a cleaning woman or any one else around here who cares what it looks like. Yes I'm venting too....LOL. I'll probably pay with back pain for running the darn sweeper. I would go ahead and clean, but that's just me...I can't stand to let it go.
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Old 11-09-2008, 04:57 PM   #5
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I hope your back is okay now Janet. Take a couple of aspirin before you go to sleep.

Gayle,

I took your advice after all. I got out the Windex, my paper towels and cleaned all the things that were really bothering me. I also straightened up as much as possible.

Good advice! Thank you - I do feel much better.
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Old 11-09-2008, 06:12 PM   #6
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I hope your back is okay now Janet. Take a couple of aspirin before you go to sleep.

Gayle,

I took your advice after all. I got out the Windex, my paper towels and cleaned all the things that were really bothering me. I also straightened up as much as possible.

Good advice! Thank you - I do feel much better.
You are welcome! I don't mind a messy house, a dirty one yes, messy no. I think I'd have to dust a little myself and I HATE to clean!!! Glad you feel better, sorry you'll have to do it again, but think about how much of your sanity that you've saved!
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Old 11-09-2008, 06:15 PM   #7
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I hear you Judy, I have to catch up on some cleaning this week myself. But there is really nothing you can do until they finish up the work. Enjoy that drink!
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Old 11-09-2008, 07:39 PM   #8
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Seems like all we do is clean, and it's never finished. Hubby goes in a lot of people's homes and he says for a working couple, ours looks great, but I don't feel like it does. Judy, if I had the time, I'd do just what you did to make yourself feel better. If I lived alone, I believe my home would be cleaner. But I'm not ready to get rid of hubby, so guess I'll keep cleaning up after him. Less than 2 months before our 35th aniv.
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Old 11-10-2008, 08:30 AM   #9
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Judy,

I'm like you don't like a dirty house. But you have a very good excuse as to why
it's that way. But I'd be doing the same thing if I were you. Like the others said
if it makes you feel better then do it. It will all be over soon.
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Old 11-10-2008, 09:17 AM   #10
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I'll sign your permission not to clean! Go do something fun!!
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Old 11-11-2008, 12:42 PM   #11
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I'll sign your permission not to clean! Go do something fun!!
I would try real hard not to worry about cleaning until it is done.
Yes, do something fun. Check more of those guys online.
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Old 11-11-2008, 01:57 PM   #12
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I would try real hard not to worry about cleaning until it is done.
Yes, do something fun. Check more of those guys online.
And then post more about them here....lolol
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