Depression

[judy]

Originally Posted by donna1990

I don't work and my ins. is $550 a month, $2,500 deductible and 8/20.
I have paid $5,000 out of my pocket this year so now it covers 100% but starts all over in Jan.
I have been on Projac for years, would be nuts without it. Depression runs in my family too.
I appreciate all of your thoughts and prayers.

Depression can get you hard. It also runs in my family. I was in a really wonderful place in my life last year when I realized I was depressed. I just couldn't believe it! I reminded myself that it's genetic and went to my doctor, who prescribed a second antidepressant or me (I was already taking one). When I last saw him, I asked him if he thought the two medications were still okay. He said that's the way it is supposed to be treated - with a combination when it's genetic.

Maybe you need the same kind of treatment I'm on. I have learned not to feel responsible for it or that I'm using a crutch. Life is way too short to be depressed if medication can help.

I love the article Diana posted. What a great way to look at it.

My prayers for the best outcome for you Donna.

[2tiredmom]

Hope you get to feeling better soon. I know it's no fun being depressed.
Your in my prayers.

[HALEY]

Donna, so sorry your feeling depressed, but i'm not far behind you, been depressed since they cut my hours, and not certain were going to recover from all this mess our country is in...
anyways hope you are feeling better today.. today is another day...
You'll be in my prayers...

[donna1990]

Originally Posted by HALEY

Donna, so sorry your feeling depressed, but i'm not far behind you, been depressed since they cut my hours, and not certain were going to recover from all this mess our country is in...
anyways hope you are feeling better today.. today is another day...
You'll be in my prayers...

Thanks GF, it is hard enough to cope with depression without adding our economy in to it.
Prayers for you too.

[HALEY]

Originally Posted by donna1990

Thanks GF, it is hard enough to cope with depression without adding our economy in to it.
Prayers for you too.

thanks Donna, that's all i been doing almost all day is reading msn news, slow here at work, getting more depressed reading the papers.. hopefully we will bounce back out of this mess but it don't look like it anytime soon, i have to stop reading the papers... one good thing i'll be out of here in 1/2 hour and going to pick up my baby that will put a smile on my face...

[Gina]

Originally Posted by HALEY

thanks Donna, that's all i been doing almost all day is reading msn news, slow here at work, getting more depressed reading the papers.. hopefully we will bounce back out of this mess but it don't look like it anytime soon, i have to stop reading the papers... one good thing i'll be out of here in 1/2 hour and going to pick up my baby that will put a smile on my face...

Haley I try not to watch to much news and read the newspaper. It is very depressing.. All I see in my line of work lately are short sales and foreclosures.. We have no control over the ecomony so why worry about it. Nothing we can do , but go with it and like you said hopefully we can rebound soon..

[HALEY]

Thanks Gina, i love to read, i read almost all the papers everyday, on my breaks and at lunchtime, kind of a book worm,,, just have to read something else, your right we have no control.... it stinks too...

[Nina]

I am sorry that you're feeling depressed, and I can totally relate to you. I think someone mentioned health problems, is that what is making you depressed?

I have had issues with depression the last few years due to health problems. I have been taking Paxil for awhile now, and that helps so much. I honestly didn't even realize I was depressed at first, but my family and my dr. saw it. I didn't even want to try the Paxil, I just didn't feel that I needed it. But, I gave it a try and what a difference! Now I can look back and realize just how depressed I was. I still have times when I feel down, but times like that don't last long. I try to find the positive in everything.

If it's not too personal, can I ask what health problems you are having? The reason I ask is because there are many good online support groups where you can talk to people who feel as you do. I have Crohn's Disease, and I joined a support group/message board. I got to know several women my age, and I found I had alot in common with them, and we were all having basically the same health issues. Now we have our own small group, and we have talked on the phone, sent books and cards to each other, and just supported each other through the bad times. There is one woman who doesn't live too far from me, and we are planning to have lunch together sometime soon.

If you ever need to talk, just let me know. I know how it feels, and it helps if you know you're not alone. Take care.

[HALEY]

Donna, just wanted to know how you are feeling today? Hopefully better.. let us know girl.

[donna1990]

Thanks Haley, you are so sweet. I am doing alright, just wish I had some energy.
Nina, I do have a lot of issues, nothing really serious just a lot of pain. My spine and neck are a mess, buldging disc, scoliosis, benign compression fractures, degenerative disc disease, disc protrusion, etc, might have to have surgery on my neck the end of Dec. Have fibromyalgia too. Have been on Prozac for years, that is suppose to help with the pain, HAHA.
For the first time in our life we are having financial problems.
I will quit complaining and think about something positive.
Appreciate all of the thoughts and prayers.

[Nina]

Originally Posted by donna1990

Thanks Haley, you are so sweet. I am doing alright, just wish I had some energy.
Nina, I do have a lot of issues, nothing really serious just a lot of pain. My spine and neck are a mess, buldging disc, scoliosis, benign compression fractures, degenerative disc disease, disc protrusion, etc, might have to have surgery on my neck the end of Dec. Have fibromyalgia too. Have been on Prozac for years, that is suppose to help with the pain, HAHA.
For the first time in our life we are having financial problems.
I will quit complaining and think about something positive.
Appreciate all of the thoughts and prayers.

Maybe you need to change to something else or have your dosage adjusted? Spine and back pain are awful and really wear you down. I have had issues with back pain....not fun at all! There are many online support groups for Fibromyalgia, and I'm sure there are some for spine problems as well. Maybe you could check them out and see if any appeal to you.

I will pray for you, and I hope things improve soon. Like I said, if you ever need to talk, just let me know.

[Janet]

Donna, I hope that you start feeling better.