Here I go to surgery again

[donna1990]

Originally Posted by DianaB

Your husband's not going to take you and be there for your surgery? I'd be more than a little upset with him over that!!!! If I lived a LOT closer I'd take you and wait for you too.

You are so sweet. He has NEVER taken me for ANYTHING.
When we lived in MN, I started to get up and my knee broke, it was horrible. Had to crawl through the house to the stairs and yell for my son, he took me to the hospital, he was 18, they wanted to do surgery but didn't have anyone there to take care of me, so they put my leg in a cast and flew to Tampa so my sister could help me. He thinks I am nuts for having cataract surgery and really nuttier for having my arm operated on. He has been really sick for 3 days, running a high fever and sweats, maybe the flu, I don't know, works every day, he is thinking of going to the Doctor this afternoon and I will not take him. He is crazy, had a friend in her 80's that needed to be in a nursing home, he went to her home every night, made her food, fed her, cleaned her diapers and bedding, even cleaned her house that was full of cats, monkeys, dogs, etc, poop all over the place and he cleaned that up too. He did this for months before she passed.
I am the one that is CRAZY.
Here I go venting again.

[2tiredmom]

I'm sorry your going though all this. Your in my thoughts and prayers too.
Hope the pain isn't as bad as they say.

[Nina]

I'm sorry you have to have surgery, and I'm even sorrier that your husband won't go with you. Make sure you get plenty of pain control so that you're comfortable. I'll keep you in my prayers.

[DianaB]

Originally Posted by donna1990

You are so sweet. He has NEVER taken me for ANYTHING.
When we lived in MN, I started to get up and my knee broke, it was horrible. Had to crawl through the house to the stairs and yell for my son, he took me to the hospital, he was 18, they wanted to do surgery but didn't have anyone there to take care of me, so they put my leg in a cast and flew to Tampa so my sister could help me. He thinks I am nuts for having cataract surgery and really nuttier for having my arm operated on. He has been really sick for 3 days, running a high fever and sweats, maybe the flu, I don't know, works every day, he is thinking of going to the Doctor this afternoon and I will not take him. He is crazy, had a friend in her 80's that needed to be in a nursing home, he went to her home every night, made her food, fed her, cleaned her diapers and bedding, even cleaned her house that was full of cats, monkeys, dogs, etc, poop all over the place and he cleaned that up too. He did this for months before she passed.
I am the one that is CRAZY.
Here I go venting again.

He did all of that for a friend? But won't help you? He's got something wrong, that's for sure!!!!!

[gja1000]

Everyone deserves the support and respect of family members. I hope he comes to see that.

[judy]

Well, you have our support and caring. That's for sure. My prayers are with you and I'm sending you lots of hugs.

[donna1990]

I do appreciate all of you.
Rod's son took him to the hospital last night and they wanted to keep him but he wouldn't stay. He is at his farm today. We can't do anything with him.