OMG!!! I was sooo LIVID!!!

Mandy · 10-09-2006, 12:00 AM

That woman obviously has some issues!

Sherry Lynn · 10-09-2006, 04:13 AM

Another whack-o!! I swear... there should be some kind of screening before they let people have kids! The poor kids grow up not knowing any better and it perpetuates.

How is your daughter handling it all, Kim? That is such a tough age to begin with and then to have to deal with this kind of crap. Bless her heart.

Kimberley · 10-09-2006, 07:55 AM

SL, she seems fine. Of course she came home with puffy eyes but later on in the evening see was smiling and laughing again. Thanks for asking.

rivermom · 10-09-2006, 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Mandy

That woman obviously has some issues!

Oh for sure!!! It's sad too how it affects so many others.

BabyNicole · 10-09-2006, 10:08 AM

I swear that MYSPACE causes SOOOO much drama for kids!! One girl at my school got suspended for something that happened there. FIRST of all, kids who are under 18 are not even supposed to be on there!! It's for meeting new people, and hooking up with old friends. That's what I use it for! All they use it for is to start trouble with one another...especially the girls!

magnolia · 10-09-2006, 10:50 AM

Kimberly - OMG! I'm so sorry this happened and I would be just as livid as you over it! Girls these days (and some guys) can be pretty mean! But the worst part of your situation is it all started from the mother, who should KNOW BETTER!!! What she has done is started something, with no basis to begin with, and has now ruined a friendship between two young girls - a friendship that might have carried them through college and into their adulthood. Maybe, just maybe, this woman will muster up enough class to call you and apologize to you for it which in turn will begin to bridge the friendship back between the two girls. But, since you've already confronted her AND she didn't deny it, I just can't see her doing the apology thing. Don't worry about it - you and your daughter are the better of the two! You both know in your hearts the truth and can live with yourselves and hold your heads high - she, on the other hand, cannot do the same!

Necee419 · 10-09-2006, 02:07 PM

You know, you kind of expect kids to be petty, especially young girls. But this lady should be ashamed of herself. She acted like a total jerk and you have every right to be upset!!

Janet · 10-10-2006, 06:57 AM

I just feel absolutely horrible suggesting you all get together and discuss the situation. I've always felt communication is key in almost anything. I guess the good thing that came of it is getting it all out in the open and finding out the other mother is a nut case!!

Necee419 · 10-10-2006, 07:03 AM

Personally, I feel discussing the situation between mothers was the right thing to do. Who knew that other mother was going to turn out to be such a troublemaker?

At least now you know what you are dealing with. In the end, kids are kids and I am sure the girls will work it out. But that mom? She'll always be a bit off her rocker. I mean, what adult in her right mind gets involved in junior high girls' gossip?

10-09-2006, 12:00 AM	#1
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	That woman obviously has some issues! __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

10-09-2006, 07:55 AM	#3
Kimberley Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: The Lone Star State Posts: 671	SL, she seems fine. Of course she came home with puffy eyes but later on in the evening see was smiling and laughing again. Thanks for asking. __________________ Kimberley "If you can read this, thank a teacher and since it's in English, thank a soldier"

10-09-2006, 10:08 AM	#5
BabyNicole Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: New Jersey Posts: 159	I swear that MYSPACE causes SOOOO much drama for kids!! One girl at my school got suspended for something that happened there. FIRST of all, kids who are under 18 are not even supposed to be on there!! It's for meeting new people, and hooking up with old friends. That's what I use it for! All they use it for is to start trouble with one another...especially the girls! __________________ Nicole Baby Fidgette My MySpace The only reason I'm single is cuz no man deserves to be that happy!

10-09-2006, 10:50 AM	#6
magnolia Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Mississippi Posts: 482	Kimberly - OMG! I'm so sorry this happened and I would be just as livid as you over it! Girls these days (and some guys) can be pretty mean! But the worst part of your situation is it all started from the mother, who should KNOW BETTER!!! What she has done is started something, with no basis to begin with, and has now ruined a friendship between two young girls - a friendship that might have carried them through college and into their adulthood. Maybe, just maybe, this woman will muster up enough class to call you and apologize to you for it which in turn will begin to bridge the friendship back between the two girls. But, since you've already confronted her AND she didn't deny it, I just can't see her doing the apology thing. Don't worry about it - you and your daughter are the better of the two! You both know in your hearts the truth and can live with yourselves and hold your heads high - she, on the other hand, cannot do the same! __________________ Suzi "Wrinkles will only go where the smiles have been"....Jimmy Buffett

10-10-2006, 06:57 AM	#8
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	I just feel absolutely horrible suggesting you all get together and discuss the situation. I've always felt communication is key in almost anything. I guess the good thing that came of it is getting it all out in the open and finding out the other mother is a nut case!! __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

10-09-2006, 04:13 AM	#2
Sherry Lynn Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Jersey Posts: 211	Another whack-o!! I swear... there should be some kind of screening before they let people have kids! The poor kids grow up not knowing any better and it perpetuates. How is your daughter handling it all, Kim? That is such a tough age to begin with and then to have to deal with this kind of crap. Bless her heart.

10-09-2006, 02:07 PM	#7
Necee419 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Bronx, NY Posts: 283	You know, you kind of expect kids to be petty, especially young girls. But this lady should be ashamed of herself. She acted like a total jerk and you have every right to be upset!!

10-10-2006, 07:03 AM	#9
Necee419 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Bronx, NY Posts: 283	Personally, I feel discussing the situation between mothers was the right thing to do. Who knew that other mother was going to turn out to be such a troublemaker? At least now you know what you are dealing with. In the end, kids are kids and I am sure the girls will work it out. But that mom? She'll always be a bit off her rocker. I mean, what adult in her right mind gets involved in junior high girls' gossip?

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