How did you meet your lover?

Willow · 10-10-2006, 04:53 PM

I am embarrassed to say tell mine, but here it goes...

My sophmore year of highschool I got invited to the Prom by a good friend. He said we were going to go as a double date with our mutual friend and her blind date from another school. Well, the blind date, Sam, ended up liking me and me him so a few weeks after the prom he asked me out...never went out just went to his house to meet his parents. His mom had Lou Garics (sp?) disease and she was pretty lonely. I didn't shy away from her like they said most people did. I just went in and talked to her as if nothing was wrong with her. Then I met his brother, Ernie, and I knew I had just met the biggest GEEK ever! He had really thick (and I mean really thick glasses!) and he had a tousled look because he had just woke up. He was in jeans and a t-shirt with a flannel shirt and I remember thinking how goofy he looked. That started a daily routine of my going over after school and keeping her company while her husband and Ernie did yard work or ran to the grocery store. Sam was always at work and I never saw him. About three weeks of sitting with his mom and he was sick of me and said he never wanted to see me again.

Well his mom wasn't sick of me. I was the only company she got. So the daily visits continued through the summer and into my Junior year. I even stayed over a couple of weekends to help with her care when she got really bad. During this time Ernie had developed a crush on me LOLOL the downside, I was 16 and he was 24. I had not interest in him and didn't know he had a crush. My mom eventually put a stop to my visiting his mom and I never saw her again. She died three months later.
After his mom died, Ernie and his dad started coming to our house to visit our family. Mostly because they were lonely and didn't know what to do with themselves and my parents always let them stay for dinner. I think my mom felt guilty about things. So six months later and Ernie finally asked me out, but we kept it quiet because he was 25 by this time and I still had 4 months before I would turn 18.

We are now married and have 4 kids and Sam is the idiot brother in law.

Willow · 10-10-2006, 04:55 PM

Oh and Ernie said he fell in love with me during the time that I came to visit his mom. He said it was the care and love I showed to his mom that made him fall in love with me.

Taurus Babe · 10-10-2006, 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Willow

I am embarrassed to say tell mine, but here it goes...

My sophmore year of highschool I got invited to the Prom by a good friend. He said we were going to go as a double date with our mutual friend and her blind date from another school. Well, the blind date, Sam, ended up liking me and me him so a few weeks after the prom he asked me out...never went out just went to his house to meet his parents. His mom had Lou Garics (sp?) disease and she was pretty lonely. I didn't shy away from her like they said most people did. I just went in and talked to her as if nothing was wrong with her. Then I met his brother, Ernie, and I knew I had just met the biggest GEEK ever! He had really thick (and I mean really thick glasses!) and he had a tousled look because he had just woke up. He was in jeans and a t-shirt with a flannel shirt and I remember thinking how goofy he looked. That started a daily routine of my going over after school and keeping her company while her husband and Ernie did yard work or ran to the grocery store. Sam was always at work and I never saw him. About three weeks of sitting with his mom and he was sick of me and said he never wanted to see me again.

Well his mom wasn't sick of me. I was the only company she got. So the daily visits continued through the summer and into my Junior year. I even stayed over a couple of weekends to help with her care when she got really bad. During this time Ernie had developed a crush on me LOLOL the downside, I was 16 and he was 24. I had not interest in him and didn't know he had a crush. My mom eventually put a stop to my visiting his mom and I never saw her again. She died three months later.
After his mom died, Ernie and his dad started coming to our house to visit our family. Mostly because they were lonely and didn't know what to do with themselves and my parents always let them stay for dinner. I think my mom felt guilty about things. So six months later and Ernie finally asked me out, but we kept it quiet because he was 25 by this time and I still had 4 months before I would turn 18.

We are now married and have 4 kids and Sam is the idiot brother in law.

HAhahahaha!

10-11-2006, 01:04 AM

I met my husband at my own apartment. My ex-boyfriend was coming into town and called me saying he was in the parking lot of my complex-he was trying to get that "remember the old-times" piece of ass

Anyway he had his best friend with him in. I almost fell over-he just got back from his stint in the navy (he was stationed in greece) He had a black leather bomber jacket on, dark tan, and the prettiest set of blue eyes I've ever seen! We chatted for about two hours and my ex was totally ignored-we were in our own little world. Two days later we went to dinner and a movie and he moved in the next day. Let's just say we had some MAJOR chemistry!!!

Anyway he asked me a week later to marry him. Jaded me I thought he was just coming down from some good lovin' and I thought he was really joking about the whole thing till a few hours later I heard him on the phone telling his mom that he had found the one and we were getting married!!!

Needless to say we've been married almost nine years and counting!!! So now every major holiday he likes to tell his family about how our wedding was a joke on me!!!

Kimberley · 10-11-2006, 12:03 PM

I was in jail school and my hubby was in peace officer school. Me and a girl named Melissa went to a college bar called Toby's after school one night.

Low and behold, Doug and a friend of his walked in. Since Doug and Melissa were on the same shift, they came to sit with us. It was short and sweet. Out of the 4 of us there, 3 worked in the jail.

Next day, I inquired about Doug to Melissa and her immediate response was, "Doug doesn't go out with people he works with." Well, whatever, she had a crush on him and that was what he told her cause he wasn't interested.

Not a month after that, Doug and I started dating (when he got moved to my shift). The rest is history.

rivermom · 10-11-2006, 02:04 PM

In a bar!!

Janet · 10-11-2006, 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by rivermom

In a bar!!

Maybe I should have looked there!!! LOL

Taurus Babe · 10-11-2006, 03:09 PM

Hahahaha!

10-11-2006, 12:03 PM	#5
Kimberley Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: The Lone Star State Posts: 671	I was in jail school and my hubby was in peace officer school. Me and a girl named Melissa went to a college bar called Toby's after school one night. Low and behold, Doug and a friend of his walked in. Since Doug and Melissa were on the same shift, they came to sit with us. It was short and sweet. Out of the 4 of us there, 3 worked in the jail. Next day, I inquired about Doug to Melissa and her immediate response was, "Doug doesn't go out with people he works with." Well, whatever, she had a crush on him and that was what he told her cause he wasn't interested. Not a month after that, Doug and I started dating (when he got moved to my shift). The rest is history. __________________ Kimberley "If you can read this, thank a teacher and since it's in English, thank a soldier"

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10-11-2006, 03:09 PM	#8
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10-10-2006, 04:53 PM	#1
Willow Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 258	I am embarrassed to say tell mine, but here it goes... My sophmore year of highschool I got invited to the Prom by a good friend. He said we were going to go as a double date with our mutual friend and her blind date from another school. Well, the blind date, Sam, ended up liking me and me him so a few weeks after the prom he asked me out...never went out just went to his house to meet his parents. His mom had Lou Garics (sp?) disease and she was pretty lonely. I didn't shy away from her like they said most people did. I just went in and talked to her as if nothing was wrong with her. Then I met his brother, Ernie, and I knew I had just met the biggest GEEK ever! He had really thick (and I mean really thick glasses!) and he had a tousled look because he had just woke up. He was in jeans and a t-shirt with a flannel shirt and I remember thinking how goofy he looked. That started a daily routine of my going over after school and keeping her company while her husband and Ernie did yard work or ran to the grocery store. Sam was always at work and I never saw him. About three weeks of sitting with his mom and he was sick of me and said he never wanted to see me again. Well his mom wasn't sick of me. I was the only company she got. So the daily visits continued through the summer and into my Junior year. I even stayed over a couple of weekends to help with her care when she got really bad. During this time Ernie had developed a crush on me LOLOL the downside, I was 16 and he was 24. I had not interest in him and didn't know he had a crush. My mom eventually put a stop to my visiting his mom and I never saw her again. She died three months later. After his mom died, Ernie and his dad started coming to our house to visit our family. Mostly because they were lonely and didn't know what to do with themselves and my parents always let them stay for dinner. I think my mom felt guilty about things. So six months later and Ernie finally asked me out, but we kept it quiet because he was 25 by this time and I still had 4 months before I would turn 18. We are now married and have 4 kids and Sam is the idiot brother in law.

10-10-2006, 04:55 PM	#2
Willow Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 258	Oh and Ernie said he fell in love with me during the time that I came to visit his mom. He said it was the care and love I showed to his mom that made him fall in love with me.

10-11-2006, 01:04 AM	#4
ice queen Guest Posts: n/a	I met my husband at my own apartment. My ex-boyfriend was coming into town and called me saying he was in the parking lot of my complex-he was trying to get that "remember the old-times" piece of ass Anyway he had his best friend with him in. I almost fell over-he just got back from his stint in the navy (he was stationed in greece) He had a black leather bomber jacket on, dark tan, and the prettiest set of blue eyes I've ever seen! We chatted for about two hours and my ex was totally ignored-we were in our own little world. Two days later we went to dinner and a movie and he moved in the next day. Let's just say we had some MAJOR chemistry!!! Anyway he asked me a week later to marry him. Jaded me I thought he was just coming down from some good lovin' and I thought he was really joking about the whole thing till a few hours later I heard him on the phone telling his mom that he had found the one and we were getting married!!! Needless to say we've been married almost nine years and counting!!! So now every major holiday he likes to tell his family about how our wedding was a joke on me!!!

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