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Old 10-13-2006, 04:37 AM   #7
Ponyup
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Originally Posted by BabyNicole
Well, I know in the Catholic church they have Pre-Cana...which is sorta like counseling/getting to know your spouse better before you marry him/her. But, now, this is my own opinion, but if you need to seek professional counseling before you are married, why is someone getting married in the first place if there are already big problems? You know what I mean?
That's not really true. All marriages have problems. There are big issue items that you may or may not have discussed before hand because for most people they do not come up in casual conversation;such as, kids, finances, moves, in-laws, I don't know what else, but you get my point. There are a lot of touchy issues that you may or may not deal with without help. Just because you have met & are marring "the one" doesn't mean that their aren't going to be some disagreements & problems. I think you maybe misunderstand what pre-marriage counseling is, you don't go because you have problems, you go to try & pinpiont what your problem areas might be & how to deal with them.
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