Need advice please!!

blowry · 04-27-2009, 03:41 AM

Morning Mandy....I have to agree with Gayle too...I worked for and agency that counseled abused children. I too would wonder about the 24 yr old boyfriend and wonder what is happening at her house. I would sit and try to talk to her and see if she would open up to you. I am a Mom to 2 girls. Erin is 30 yrs old and Courtney is 25 yrs old. I have learned, through my years of motherhood, if you forbid them to see someone they will want to see them even more...It's a teenage thing! I had an issue sort of like this with my oldest when she was a teen...she was hanging around with a group of kids that I DID NOT like! The more I told her she couldn't hang around with them the more she would...and she would sneak to see them. Even though it was beyond my better judgment, I would allow them to come to my house. I felt this way I could keep and eye on things...eventually she saw what I was trying to tell her and she stopped hanging around with them. He is only 17...this is a tough age...I'm sure this probably won't last forever. Bringing up teenagers today is very tough...I wish you luck!

Big ((((((hugs))))) to you

HALEY · 05-20-2009, 07:21 AM

WOW, why is everyone picking on the mother? If i look good if im ever single again i would love to have a 24 year old stud!!!

DianaB · 05-20-2009, 10:47 AM

Mandy, how are things going with the girlfriend?

judy · 05-20-2009, 11:03 AM

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Originally Posted by HALEY

WOW, why is everyone picking on the mother? If i look good if im ever single again i would love to have a 24 year old stud!!!

You would be surprised Haley! At a certain age, normal, young, beautiful men in their 20's are not attracted to women in their late 40's except for the sexual experience, something to brag about and maybe because they need a "Mommy."

They also have pretty much nothing to talk about that would interest a mature woman.

JMO

HALEY · 05-21-2009, 03:54 AM

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Originally Posted by judy

You would be surprised Haley! At a certain age, normal, young, beautiful men in their 20's are not attracted to women in their late 40's except for the sexual experience, something to brag about and maybe because they need a "Mommy."

They also have pretty much nothing to talk about that would interest a mature woman.

JMO

yea i guess your right, but what about all these guys with young woman,, i guess there just sugar daddy's... if i was single again, i might just try out a young stud for awhile and then move on.. LOL...

Janet · 05-21-2009, 01:36 PM

Haley sweetie...you're so young yourself if you go much younger they'll have you arrested....ROFLMBO!

HALEY · 05-26-2009, 03:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Janet

Haley sweetie...you're so young yourself if you go much younger they'll have you arrested....ROFLMBO!

LOL !!! if Mike would ever leave me, believe me i don't want another man!! im not cooking, cleaning, and doing someone else laundry

he he... maybe they could spend the night but they got to leave the next day !!! LOL!!!

04-27-2009, 03:41 AM	#1
blowry Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 450	Morning Mandy....I have to agree with Gayle too...I worked for and agency that counseled abused children. I too would wonder about the 24 yr old boyfriend and wonder what is happening at her house. I would sit and try to talk to her and see if she would open up to you. I am a Mom to 2 girls. Erin is 30 yrs old and Courtney is 25 yrs old. I have learned, through my years of motherhood, if you forbid them to see someone they will want to see them even more...It's a teenage thing! I had an issue sort of like this with my oldest when she was a teen...she was hanging around with a group of kids that I DID NOT like! The more I told her she couldn't hang around with them the more she would...and she would sneak to see them. Even though it was beyond my better judgment, I would allow them to come to my house. I felt this way I could keep and eye on things...eventually she saw what I was trying to tell her and she stopped hanging around with them. He is only 17...this is a tough age...I'm sure this probably won't last forever. Bringing up teenagers today is very tough...I wish you luck! Big ((((((hugs))))) to you __________________ Brenda

05-20-2009, 07:21 AM	#2
HALEY Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 2,147	WOW, why is everyone picking on the mother? If i look good if im ever single again i would love to have a 24 year old stud!!! __________________ PROUD MOMMY

05-20-2009, 10:47 AM	#3
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	Mandy, how are things going with the girlfriend? __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

05-21-2009, 01:36 PM	#6
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Haley sweetie...you're so young yourself if you go much younger they'll have you arrested....ROFLMBO! __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

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