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05-02-2009, 09:31 PM
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If I don't answer when she calls she ends up calling my husband. I've tried that. Today when we were in Wichita she tried to call Glen, I had asked him before hand to not answer her calls today because I didn't want to get upset over her problems while we were out having a good time. I don't know what she wanted but I'm sure that I'll find out tomorrow at church.
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05-03-2009, 11:23 AM
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Hopefully, she will get divorced before you go nuts from her! I think you are doing the right thing, telling Glen not to answer her calls. If you both don't answer the calls, she will find somebody else to complain to.
I feel sorry for people in crisis, but when they use up your patience and your wisdom, you can' help them anymore. She does need to find someone new.
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05-03-2009, 01:18 PM
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Oh wow, that can be frustrating. I once had a friend who complained about her husband ALL THE TIME and it can be draining. (They are divorced now, thank goodness.) I completely understand how you feel and I think it's a great idea to not answer the phone until you feel up to it again. Good luck!
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05-03-2009, 03:58 PM
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Some people are just toxic - they suck the life right out of you! I hope you can get some resolution soon. You may just have to have a heart to heart with her and tell you how she is interfering with YOUR well-being.
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05-04-2009, 06:38 AM
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Diana you crack me up! Silly girl
 I understand what you mean, you can only say the same thing over and over in so many different ways, after a while, you get tired of repeating yourself, and than it gets old. I sure hope she pulls herself together, and starts doing something to help herself. Good luck girl, i hope she gives you a break!!!!
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05-04-2009, 09:19 AM
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Jody, had quite the weekend with her husband and I think that she's definitely ready to go through with the divorce. Things kinda' blew up this weekend between my husband and I about this (and many other things) and Jody now knows there's a problems and she has apologized several times. Acually, it was Glen's problem for not telling her that she needed to talk to me and not him, anyway not as often. Jody's very understanding and we're still friends and everything is much, much better.
It wasn't a pleasant weekend at all because of this and some other problems but Glen and I spent a lot of time yesterday together talking and, hopefully, things will be better.
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05-05-2009, 09:43 AM
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i'll bring the beer diana !!!! i need a good drunk...
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