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06-08-2009, 11:47 AM
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I have a cousin that did almost this exact thing. Mark's girlfriend was a wonderful girl and my Aunt just loved her. In my Aunt's opinion she was just perfect for Mark in every way. When Mark broke up with her she called my Aunt and they were both very upset. Everyone thought that they'd eventually get back together but it didn't happen. It ended up that Mark found another girl and in a short time they were married.
Don't give up hope. We can't understand all the reasons that our kids do what they do but I'm sure he's thought this over very carefully. It sounds like he's being very grown-up and is taking the decision about not keeping his girlfriend very seriously. It's really hard to let our kids make their own decisions sometimes. He sounds like a very responsible boy.
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06-08-2009, 12:25 PM
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I know how you feel. Same thing happened to me and I am still very close to Cory's X, love her so much. He broke her heart and mine.
Hope things work out for the best.
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06-08-2009, 01:46 PM
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I know how you feel, too! Blasted boys NEVER ask us if it's ok to break up with girlfriends. It does make you guard your heart so you won't get attached to their girlfriend, just in case they break up. It's hard on us moms! If it makes you feel any better, I ended up with the best two dil's in the world
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06-08-2009, 03:27 PM
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I'm learning something here....yet again!!! I have to make mental note not to get too attached to girlfriends of my son.....just in case.
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06-08-2009, 04:37 PM
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Thank you all ladies.. Janet learn from this lol.. This morning after I typed that post she called me again telling me that she is not eating, lost 15 pds. not sleeping etc. and was crying. I keep reiterating that she has to move on and not to call my son. I FEEL TERRIBLE but like everyone said he is my son and he is a very mature boy. I know he is hurting too but this is what relationships are all about. Better now that after they get married. I try not to think about it for I do feel bad... But whatever is meant to be will be. Thanks!
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06-08-2009, 04:40 PM
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I am sure they feel that way about you to.
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