Life is NOT getting better!!!!

Janet · 10-19-2006, 03:48 PM

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Originally Posted by RLC12345678

I'm so sorry, Janet.

I would be SO incredibly pissed, too, if something like this happened to me. Did your hubby sound remorseful or sorry that he didn't tell you? I think you need to have a serious come to Jesus talk with him! Sounds like things just keep getting worse at your home. Of course, I know you only tell us the bad things that happen. I am sure there are some good things, too. But, WE'RE HERE FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!! (((((((HUGS!!)))))))

Yes Sweetie there are some good things too....not as many...LOL. No he didn't sound remorseful or anything. He just felt stupid...well duh!!!! I did have a talk with him a little while ago. Told him basically he needed to start using that thing between his ears. That one or more dogs could have died because he didn't think.

No things are not getting worse....it's always like this. Girls I'm trying, but man it's hard. Good thing the good Lord blessed me with some patience, I just wish he blessed me with a tighter control of my mouth.....LOLOL (so does my hubby)

magnolia · 10-19-2006, 03:52 PM

Oh Janet! How awful! I've been without a computer all day at work and am just now reading this from home. I agree, he could have told you this morning what happened! Or, could have woken you up to tell you last night. I know I would never be upset if Sam woke me up cause one of my babies got into something they shouldn't have - I'd rather wake from a deep sleep to know they are okay than to wake up and they be sick - or worse!

Because I'm so late in seeing this and replying, I'm sure things are okay now at home and hopefully your hubby and son have learned a valuable lesson from this incident. Sending you lots of ((((((((HUGS)))))))).

Love ya!

Necee419 · 10-19-2006, 04:02 PM

I'm sorry your day wasn't so great. Thank goodness it wasn't a medication that was extremely harmful, otherwise things could have turned out a LOT worse. BTW, how are the furballs doing? Are they ok? Or are their little tummies upset?

Mandy · 10-20-2006, 02:45 AM

Hey Janet, how are you feeling today? Hope all your fur kiddo's are OK!!

Janet · 10-20-2006, 05:30 AM

Everything is fine today girls....thanks for all the support. Maybe if I wasn't so hard on him at times...he wouldn't screw up so much. I just have high expectations and I have to remember that not everyone thinks like me or have the same expectations. It's a hard lesson to learn, so some of you younger ones might start practicing it now.....it's hard to relearn some things at my age...LOL

Another lesson I need to learn is to calm down and don't start jumping down his throat right away. Yes it could have been worse, but me going nuts wasn't going to help the situation one bit. Where's the Xanax when I need it....LOL

The doggies are doing great. All are eating/drinking well, Joey's stool is better. Izzie is doing great since her surgery. She's such a little doll baby. Hasn't bothered her stitches at all and is now eating better. I am so relieved.

rivermom · 10-20-2006, 06:24 AM

Oh Janet, I just read this. I am so sorry this happened. What a panic this must have been on you. I am glad to hear that the fur kids will be fine. It's hard to be rational in the state of panic you were in so I understand completely the actions you took.

So so glad the fur kids are ok.

Janet · 10-20-2006, 06:29 AM

Thanks Sheryl....it is hard to remain calm when it comes to my babies, but I need to in a bad way. I'll work on it, but these boys of mine need to work on it too.

Saw you other post about your horse...I am behind you 200%.

10-19-2006, 03:52 PM	#2
magnolia Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Mississippi Posts: 482	Oh Janet! How awful! I've been without a computer all day at work and am just now reading this from home. I agree, he could have told you this morning what happened! Or, could have woken you up to tell you last night. I know I would never be upset if Sam woke me up cause one of my babies got into something they shouldn't have - I'd rather wake from a deep sleep to know they are okay than to wake up and they be sick - or worse! Because I'm so late in seeing this and replying, I'm sure things are okay now at home and hopefully your hubby and son have learned a valuable lesson from this incident. Sending you lots of ((((((((HUGS)))))))). Love ya! __________________ Suzi "Wrinkles will only go where the smiles have been"....Jimmy Buffett

10-20-2006, 02:45 AM	#4
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	Hey Janet, how are you feeling today? Hope all your fur kiddo's are OK!! __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

10-20-2006, 05:30 AM	#5
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Everything is fine today girls....thanks for all the support. Maybe if I wasn't so hard on him at times...he wouldn't screw up so much. I just have high expectations and I have to remember that not everyone thinks like me or have the same expectations. It's a hard lesson to learn, so some of you younger ones might start practicing it now.....it's hard to relearn some things at my age...LOL Another lesson I need to learn is to calm down and don't start jumping down his throat right away. Yes it could have been worse, but me going nuts wasn't going to help the situation one bit. Where's the Xanax when I need it....LOL The doggies are doing great. All are eating/drinking well, Joey's stool is better. Izzie is doing great since her surgery. She's such a little doll baby. Hasn't bothered her stitches at all and is now eating better. I am so relieved. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

10-20-2006, 06:24 AM	#6
rivermom Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Tontitown, Arkansas Posts: 2,475	Oh Janet, I just read this. I am so sorry this happened. What a panic this must have been on you. I am glad to hear that the fur kids will be fine. It's hard to be rational in the state of panic you were in so I understand completely the actions you took. So so glad the fur kids are ok. __________________ ~_/> , /\/\ ,,, Sheryl When I grow up I want to be a horse whisperer!

10-20-2006, 06:29 AM	#7
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Thanks Sheryl....it is hard to remain calm when it comes to my babies, but I need to in a bad way. I'll work on it, but these boys of mine need to work on it too. Saw you other post about your horse...I am behind you 200%. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

10-19-2006, 04:02 PM	#3
Necee419 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Bronx, NY Posts: 283	I'm sorry your day wasn't so great. Thank goodness it wasn't a medication that was extremely harmful, otherwise things could have turned out a LOT worse. BTW, how are the furballs doing? Are they ok? Or are their little tummies upset?

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