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Old 09-08-2006, 04:33 AM   #1
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Secrets...

Do you keep any secrets from your husband? Or do you have the relationship that you both tell each other EVERYTHING?

I've been married for many years and tell my husband most everything. But...lately I've found myself holding back a few little details. (secrets)
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Old 09-08-2006, 04:41 AM   #2
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I tell my husband absolutely everything. I tend to be a bit of an over sharer. I'm sure somethings he'd probably wish I just kept to myself.
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Old 09-08-2006, 04:49 AM   #3
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I've got some secrets that I haven't told. It all happened way before I even knew him but I figure...why tell him? He may not be very understanding.
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Old 09-08-2006, 05:34 AM   #4
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It depends on what it is about, if a friend tells me something in confidence I don't devulge. I don't like to air out other people's laundry so to speak unless they want me to say something and get a mans opinion. I basically talk about whats going on in my life , I don't hold secrets concerning myself or my children.. If I had to it would be only not to hurt my husband.
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Old 09-08-2006, 05:50 AM   #5
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I don't tell my husband everything. If it concerns our home and family, then yeah, most of the time. But the other stuff in my life is mine, unless I feel like sharing. I never repeat a secret, I would hate that done to me, so a secret is safe with me.
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Old 09-08-2006, 06:01 AM   #6
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I personaly think secrets are a good thing .not all infromation makes for good communication let alone a closer bond .
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Old 09-08-2006, 06:40 AM   #7
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If someone tells me something in confidence than no way will i share it with him!
I don't tell him EVERYTHING about myself, because i know some of the things he just won't get LOL
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Old 09-08-2006, 06:44 AM   #8
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We tell each other everything! But like everyone else said, I keep secrets that people tell me!
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Old 09-08-2006, 07:08 AM   #9
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c'mon EVERYTHING!!!, some things have to be kept inside...
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Old 09-08-2006, 08:16 AM   #10
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I keep a few secrets to myself.....my mom always said that men like a little mystery to their women
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Old 09-08-2006, 01:44 PM   #11
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I keep a few secrets to myself.....my mom always said that men like a little mystery to their women

I agree with this. I keep just enough secrets to have a little mystery...and to not get in trouble! (I'm not talking about anything BIG...just when I buy stuff for my yorkies kind of thing. )
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Old 09-08-2006, 02:34 PM   #12
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I agree with this. I keep just enough secrets to have a little mystery...and to not get in trouble! (I'm not talking about anything BIG...just when I buy stuff for my yorkies kind of thing. )
yeah...yorkie stuff is bought on the down-low around here too!!!
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Old 09-08-2006, 02:59 PM   #13
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I tell my husband everything i hate having a lie between us.
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Old 09-08-2006, 08:16 PM   #14
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Yep, he knows it all, the good and the bad, past, present, and plans for the future. I do keep my friends and daughter's confidences, but this he understands and respects. Anything affecting us or if it is something about our daughters that he needs to know, we share.
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Old 09-09-2006, 07:21 PM   #15
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Yes he knows the good the bad and the ugly
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