Hey Everybody!!

Janet · 08-26-2007, 04:04 AM

I haven't been posting much for awhile and thought I'd explain a little why.

It's just been so hectic with hubby and my Mom. Plus, I've been such a bi**h and so down, I didn't want to bring everyone down with me. I was tired of my negative posts so didn't post much at all.

Things are a little better now and I don't feel so overwhelmed and depressed. Not saying it will stay that way...lol...but I'm trying.

AngieDoogles · 08-26-2007, 10:28 AM

Janet, it's so glad to see you posting again! I've missed you! I don't have time to read your other threads just yet since I'm on my way out, but I'll get to them as soon as I can. I just wanted you to know that you were missed!

Janet · 08-26-2007, 11:10 AM

Thanks Angie, I appreciate it. I'm going to try and post more and just be present more, but alot depends on how I am emotionally. Trying to keep a stiff upper lip if ya know what I mean.

Forgivenmom5 · 08-26-2007, 02:48 PM

Janet you need to post no matter how you feel. Maybe we can help you get through the rough days.

Janet · 08-26-2007, 03:52 PM

Thank you so much Debbie, I will really try. I just don't want to be the 'one' who's posts are always a downer. I do have good things going in my life, so maybe I won't be so negative.

AngieDoogles · 08-26-2007, 05:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Janet

Thank you so much Debbie, I will really try. I just don't want to be the 'one' who's posts are always a downer. I do have good things going in my life, so maybe I won't be so negative.

You are NOT a downer. And no one thinks that either. *hugs*

Marilyn · 08-26-2007, 06:00 PM

Janet, we'll try to be here to encourage you. I haven't been on much either. Just too much going on. First vacation, now a lot of catching up and other things. Our dogs have been sick since we got back. They have some kind of nasty virus and we've had around $750 in vet bills so far. I'm so tired of cleaning up after them. What a mess.

Sorry, not meaning to hyjack your thread.

Not too many on here lately. It will probably catch up again once people are all back after the summer.

Keep on posting!!

Mandy · 08-27-2007, 01:19 AM

Janet, i missed you!! Been wondering where you were, but knew you must have been busy with summer, puppies, and your hubby. Girl, you are not a downer, this place is for us all to come, and tell what we want, good, and bad things. Just say what you feel, it's an escape from it all, and we are all here to support each other!

Mandy · 08-27-2007, 01:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Marilyn

Janet, we'll try to be here to encourage you. I haven't been on much either. Just too much going on. First vacation, now a lot of catching up and other things. Our dogs have been sick since we got back. They have some kind of nasty virus and we've had around $750 in vet bills so far. I'm so tired of cleaning up after them. What a mess.

Sorry, not meaning to hyjack your thread.

Not too many on here lately. It will probably catch up again once people are all back after the summer.

Keep on posting!!

Marilyn, i'm sorry to hear your doggies are sick, hope they get better soon!!!

DianaB · 08-27-2007, 10:28 AM

I don't think that you're a downer, Janet. I think that you just share more what's going on in your life then the rest of us. I have NEVER considered your posts as unpleasant! You're our friend!!!!

Tink · 08-27-2007, 09:49 PM

Janet, you're not a downer. You're a sweet loving lady who's going through some tough stuff and should be able to lean on her friends and have a place to vent as needed.

I kinda know how you feel 'cause I try not to post a lot of negative stuff, but that's my own hang-up... not a result of anything anyone here has said or done. I think we're both lucky to have such good friends here that we CAN vent when/if we need to. So vent away... it's a whole lot healthier than holding it in till we blow up! LOL

Janet · 08-28-2007, 08:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Tink

Janet, you're not a downer. You're a sweet loving lady who's going through some tough stuff and should be able to lean on her friends and have a place to vent as needed.

I kinda know how you feel 'cause I try not to post a lot of negative stuff, but that's my own hang-up... not a result of anything anyone here has said or done. I think we're both lucky to have such good friends here that we CAN vent when/if we need to. So vent away... it's a whole lot healthier than holding it in till we blow up! LOL

I'm so blessed to have so many wonderful friends here at 4WT who will let me be myself....the good and the bad. I am very open, probably too open. It just seems at times that once I get on a roll about the unpleasant things in my life, I forget about the many, many blessings I have. The ladies here are a great example. I'm just trying to focus on them, not to say that a VENT post may not show up...LOL

AngieDoogles · 08-28-2007, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Janet

I'm so blessed to have so many wonderful friends here at 4WT who will let me be myself....the good and the bad. I am very open, probably too open. It just seems at times that once I get on a roll about the unpleasant things in my life, I forget about the many, many blessings I have. The ladies here are a great example. I'm just trying to focus on them, not to say that a VENT post may not show up...LOL

If you do need to vent, we'll be here to remind you of the good things in your life as well as encourage you through the bad. That's what this place is all about as far as I can tell.

Hope everything is going well for you Janet!

08-26-2007, 04:04 AM	#1
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,624	Hey Everybody!! I haven't been posting much for awhile and thought I'd explain a little why. It's just been so hectic with hubby and my Mom. Plus, I've been such a bi**h and so down, I didn't want to bring everyone down with me. I was tired of my negative posts so didn't post much at all. Things are a little better now and I don't feel so overwhelmed and depressed. Not saying it will stay that way...lol...but I'm trying. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

08-26-2007, 10:28 AM	#2
AngieDoogles Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 6,509	Janet, it's so glad to see you posting again! I've missed you! I don't have time to read your other threads just yet since I'm on my way out, but I'll get to them as soon as I can. I just wanted you to know that you were missed! __________________ "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." ~MT

08-26-2007, 11:10 AM	#3
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,624	Thanks Angie, I appreciate it. I'm going to try and post more and just be present more, but alot depends on how I am emotionally. Trying to keep a stiff upper lip if ya know what I mean. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

08-26-2007, 02:48 PM	#4
Forgivenmom5 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 1,409	Janet you need to post no matter how you feel. Maybe we can help you get through the rough days. __________________ ~Debbie~

08-26-2007, 03:52 PM	#5
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,624	Thank you so much Debbie, I will really try. I just don't want to be the 'one' who's posts are always a downer. I do have good things going in my life, so maybe I won't be so negative. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

08-26-2007, 06:00 PM	#7
Marilyn Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Texas Posts: 4,907	Janet, we'll try to be here to encourage you. I haven't been on much either. Just too much going on. First vacation, now a lot of catching up and other things. Our dogs have been sick since we got back. They have some kind of nasty virus and we've had around $750 in vet bills so far. I'm so tired of cleaning up after them. What a mess. Sorry, not meaning to hyjack your thread. Not too many on here lately. It will probably catch up again once people are all back after the summer. Keep on posting!! __________________ Marilyn If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32

08-27-2007, 01:19 AM	#8
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	Janet, i missed you!! Been wondering where you were, but knew you must have been busy with summer, puppies, and your hubby. Girl, you are not a downer, this place is for us all to come, and tell what we want, good, and bad things. Just say what you feel, it's an escape from it all, and we are all here to support each other! __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

08-27-2007, 10:28 AM	#10
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	I don't think that you're a downer, Janet. I think that you just share more what's going on in your life then the rest of us. I have NEVER considered your posts as unpleasant! You're our friend!!!! __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

08-27-2007, 09:49 PM	#11
Tink Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Rural Wisconsin Posts: 3,707	Janet, you're not a downer. You're a sweet loving lady who's going through some tough stuff and should be able to lean on her friends and have a place to vent as needed. I kinda know how you feel 'cause I try not to post a lot of negative stuff, but that's my own hang-up... not a result of anything anyone here has said or done. I think we're both lucky to have such good friends here that we CAN vent when/if we need to. So vent away... it's a whole lot healthier than holding it in till we blow up! LOL __________________ 'A simple way to take measure of a country is to look at how many want in.. And how many want out.' England 's Prime Minister Tony Blair'

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