Please pray for my brother

AngieDoogles · 07-30-2008, 12:42 AM

His lung collapsed again and he's at the hospital. I'm on my way now, but I'm really scared and so is Mom. We would appreciate any prayers. Thanks everyone.

AngieDoogles · 07-30-2008, 02:28 AM

After three hours in acute care of the ER, Bobby is stabilized. He's in horrible pain and tubes are holding up his lung for now, but at least he is stable. He'll be in the hospital for the next few days. We should know more tomorrow. My family and I would really appreciate your thoughts and prayers. He is only 17 and has already been through so much...

Brendon and I had to come home because Crystal was getting really tired.

Mandy · 07-30-2008, 03:04 AM

Angie, so sorry Bobby isnt well. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!!

Send him my love, and tell him to get well soon.

Marilyn · 07-30-2008, 03:40 AM

Oh, Angie, so sorry to hear this news. You know that you all will be in my prayers until his health is restored. Give everyone a hug from us!!

Janet · 07-30-2008, 03:46 AM

How scary for the whole family. I'm glad he is stable now and hopefully they can do something to keep this from happening again. Your family is in my prayers Angie.

teri88 · 07-30-2008, 05:50 AM

Ouch! Poor Bobby, that is sooo painful. He is in my prayers.

Gina · 07-30-2008, 06:00 AM

Oh Angie, I am glad to read that he is stable. I hope they get to the bottom of this and that it is not serious. My prayers are with him and your family. Don't worry he will be fine...

Bobby

AngieDoogles · 07-30-2008, 06:06 AM

They gave him morphine for the pain so now he's sleeping. Crystal seems rested now so we're headed back to the hospital with food for mom. She wouldn't eat if we didn't make her...

Thanks for the prayers.

DianaB · 07-30-2008, 06:47 AM

Angie, I'm so sorry to hear about Bobby. I'll keep Bobby and your family in my prayers. Tell your Mom to take care of herself because we don't want two of your family to be sick. Take care and keep us posted. Love ya', Girlfriend! Hugs!!!

Dobie · 07-30-2008, 06:55 AM

Sending prayers your way - hope he recovers quickly.

Tiramisu · 07-30-2008, 09:06 AM

Sorry about your brother and hoping he'll be OK. I've had the collapsed lung and it's horrible.

AngieDoogles · 07-30-2008, 01:02 PM

We are all at the hospital still, but they moved us to pediatrics and out of the ER. Bobby got more medicine so he's sleeping again. I stole his laptop to write a quick update.

Mom and Bobby have to decide whether or not to do pulmonary surgery in the morning. They will go inside his chest, irritate his chest cavity so that it will harden and cause the lung will stick to it making it less likely to collapse again. They'll also staple all of the weak spots on his lung so that they won't allow air to escape anymore. Even with the surgery there is always a chance this could happen again, but without it, the likelihood is 50/50. The doctors are impatient and are pushing for a decision, but Bobby is scared and doesn't want to do it. We still don't know how long the tubes have to stay in. Mom thinks the surgery is the best option, but doesn't want to pressure him to do it.

It's scary and I hate seeing him in such excruciating pain... I really hope this never happens again.

Last night his blood pressure and heart rate bottomed out and dropped so low and so suddenly that 10 or so doctors and nurses rushed in like you see on TV calling for stats and tubes and all yelling over each other. Mom said it was one of the scariest things she's ever witnessed. Thank goodness they were able to stabilize him!

Anyway, I will update you when I know if we're doing the surgery in the morning or not.

Mandy · 07-30-2008, 01:23 PM

I can definatly understand Bobby's fear, poor kid is petrified.
Can they give him something that will relax him, so he wont worry so much?
That must be so terribly hard on your mom to see him this way.
Maybe the Doctors can have a gentle talk with him, and tell him that if he has it done, most probaby he wont get those terrible pains anymore?
Gosh Angie, i wish i had the right words to say, but really... i am praying for all of you.

teri88 · 07-30-2008, 02:54 PM

Thanks for the update. I am praying that Bobby can have peace and know the right choice to make for himself.

Janet · 07-30-2008, 03:56 PM

I'm just going to keep checking for updates. If he knows the likelyhood of having the terrible pains again is much lower, maybe he won't be so frightened. Still keeping you all in my prayers.

07-30-2008, 12:42 AM	#1
AngieDoogles Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 6,509	Please pray for my brother His lung collapsed again and he's at the hospital. I'm on my way now, but I'm really scared and so is Mom. We would appreciate any prayers. Thanks everyone. __________________ "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." ~MT

07-30-2008, 02:28 AM	#2
AngieDoogles Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 6,509	After three hours in acute care of the ER, Bobby is stabilized. He's in horrible pain and tubes are holding up his lung for now, but at least he is stable. He'll be in the hospital for the next few days. We should know more tomorrow. My family and I would really appreciate your thoughts and prayers. He is only 17 and has already been through so much... Brendon and I had to come home because Crystal was getting really tired. __________________ "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." ~MT

07-30-2008, 03:04 AM	#3
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	Angie, so sorry Bobby isnt well. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!! Send him my love, and tell him to get well soon. __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

07-30-2008, 03:40 AM	#4
Marilyn Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Texas Posts: 4,907	Oh, Angie, so sorry to hear this news. You know that you all will be in my prayers until his health is restored. Give everyone a hug from us!! __________________ Marilyn If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32

07-30-2008, 03:46 AM	#5
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,624	How scary for the whole family. I'm glad he is stable now and hopefully they can do something to keep this from happening again. Your family is in my prayers Angie. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

07-30-2008, 05:50 AM	#6
teri88 Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: New Jersey Posts: 808	Ouch! Poor Bobby, that is sooo painful. He is in my prayers. __________________ TERI Of course I'm in shape. Isn't round a shape?

07-30-2008, 06:00 AM	#7
Gina Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 6,025	Oh Angie, I am glad to read that he is stable. I hope they get to the bottom of this and that it is not serious. My prayers are with him and your family. Don't worry he will be fine... Bobby

07-30-2008, 06:06 AM	#8
AngieDoogles Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 6,509	They gave him morphine for the pain so now he's sleeping. Crystal seems rested now so we're headed back to the hospital with food for mom. She wouldn't eat if we didn't make her... Thanks for the prayers. __________________ "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." ~MT

07-30-2008, 06:47 AM	#9
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	Angie, I'm so sorry to hear about Bobby. I'll keep Bobby and your family in my prayers. Tell your Mom to take care of herself because we don't want two of your family to be sick. Take care and keep us posted. Love ya', Girlfriend! Hugs!!! __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

07-30-2008, 06:55 AM	#10
Dobie Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: New Hampshire Posts: 1,075	Sending prayers your way - hope he recovers quickly.

07-30-2008, 09:06 AM	#11
Tiramisu Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: New Caney, Texas (outside Houston) Posts: 1,776	Sorry about your brother and hoping he'll be OK. I've had the collapsed lung and it's horrible. __________________ SANDY

07-30-2008, 01:02 PM	#12
AngieDoogles Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 6,509	We are all at the hospital still, but they moved us to pediatrics and out of the ER. Bobby got more medicine so he's sleeping again. I stole his laptop to write a quick update. Mom and Bobby have to decide whether or not to do pulmonary surgery in the morning. They will go inside his chest, irritate his chest cavity so that it will harden and cause the lung will stick to it making it less likely to collapse again. They'll also staple all of the weak spots on his lung so that they won't allow air to escape anymore. Even with the surgery there is always a chance this could happen again, but without it, the likelihood is 50/50. The doctors are impatient and are pushing for a decision, but Bobby is scared and doesn't want to do it. We still don't know how long the tubes have to stay in. Mom thinks the surgery is the best option, but doesn't want to pressure him to do it. It's scary and I hate seeing him in such excruciating pain... I really hope this never happens again. Last night his blood pressure and heart rate bottomed out and dropped so low and so suddenly that 10 or so doctors and nurses rushed in like you see on TV calling for stats and tubes and all yelling over each other. Mom said it was one of the scariest things she's ever witnessed. Thank goodness they were able to stabilize him! Anyway, I will update you when I know if we're doing the surgery in the morning or not. __________________ "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." ~MT

07-30-2008, 01:23 PM	#13
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	I can definatly understand Bobby's fear, poor kid is petrified. Can they give him something that will relax him, so he wont worry so much? That must be so terribly hard on your mom to see him this way. Maybe the Doctors can have a gentle talk with him, and tell him that if he has it done, most probaby he wont get those terrible pains anymore? Gosh Angie, i wish i had the right words to say, but really... i am praying for all of you. __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

07-30-2008, 02:54 PM	#14
teri88 Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: New Jersey Posts: 808	Thanks for the update. I am praying that Bobby can have peace and know the right choice to make for himself. __________________ TERI Of course I'm in shape. Isn't round a shape?

07-30-2008, 03:56 PM	#15
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,624	I'm just going to keep checking for updates. If he knows the likelyhood of having the terrible pains again is much lower, maybe he won't be so frightened. Still keeping you all in my prayers. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

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