Wife Swap/Trading Spouses

Janet · 10-24-2006, 05:12 AM

I watched Wife Swap last night and it got me to thinking....oh no!!! Anyway..usually they have a wacko of varying degrees and then they have what you might call the straight shooter, rigid...etc. Which are you?

I'm probably the wacko, if I had to choose one or the other. I'm not as rigid as the ones whose house has to be perfect at all time...child/children in everything under the sun..etc. I do like my house clean and most of the time it is, but it is never completely spotless. I am not on the go all the time either, I spend way to much time on the computer either here or YT.

So which are you???

RLC12345678 · 10-24-2006, 06:13 AM

Well, unfortunately I think I am more on the rigid side. I have said this before on other posts, but I am somewhat of a germaphobe. I am beginning to think it is a problem.

I also like to have everything in it's place and tidy. I don't have children yet, but with my furbabies, they have to be looking sharp at all times. I do the haircutting myself, so they are always groomed and bathed. I also HAVE to be on a schedule. When I don't have a schedule, I freak out and am a very unpleasant person to be around. Luckily, my husband is much the same way as I am so we make a pretty good team. But he is not a germaphobe like I, so that is something that I am currently working on because I know it can sometimes be ridiculous.

Janet · 10-24-2006, 06:24 AM

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Originally Posted by RLC12345678

Well, unfortunately I think I am more on the rigid side. I have said this before on other posts, but I am somewhat of a germaphobe. I am beginning to think it is a problem.

I also like to have everything in it's place and tidy. I don't have children yet, but with my furbabies, they have to be looking sharp at all times. I do the haircutting myself, so they are always groomed and bathed. I also HAVE to be on a schedule. When I don't have a schedule, I freak out and am a very unpleasant person to be around. Luckily, my husband is much the same way as I am so we make a pretty good team. But he is not a germaphobe like I, so that is something that I am currently working on because I know it can sometimes be ridiculous.

I guess maybe I am really more like in the middle then. I'm not a germaphobe, but I don't want to take chances and somethings just totally gross me out. I do like to have everthing in it's place too and I'm on the guys all the time to get this or that put up. Right now I'm going through this "thing" with my son. I have a throw rug in the boys bathroom that belongs in front of the sinks. Every time I go in there lately, it's moved to the wall. I HATE THAT!! It doesn't belong there. I've told my son that if I find it where it doesn't belong again, that will be one day without video games (he's only allowed to play them on weekends for 2 hours each day).

My husband is definitely not like that at all. He is a real slob. Like I said before, he has a garage that will hold 4 cars real close, but you can't get a car in there. I think I would be more picky if I had newer furniture and carpets or laminate. But I can't afford it now. I would totally love to redecorate, but then I'm afraid I would become very neurotic (sp). I use to be VERY picky about all that, but as I've aged I've relaxed a bit.....I think.

RLC12345678 · 10-24-2006, 06:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Janet

I guess maybe I am really more like in the middle then. I'm not a germaphobe, but I don't want to take chances and somethings just totally gross me out. I do like to have everthing in it's place too and I'm on the guys all the time to get this or that put up. Right now I'm going through this "thing" with my son. I have a throw rug in the boys bathroom that belongs in front of the sinks. Every time I go in there lately, it's moved to the wall. I HATE THAT!! It doesn't belong there. I've told my son that if I find it where it doesn't belong again, that will be one day without video games (he's only allowed to play them on weekends for 2 hours each day).

My husband is definitely not like that at all. He is a real slob. Like I said before, he has a garage that will hold 4 cars real close, but you can't get a car in there. I think I would be more picky if I had newer furniture and carpets or laminate. But I can't afford it now. I would totally love to redecorate, but then I'm afraid I would become very neurotic (sp). I use to be VERY picky about all that, but as I've aged I've relaxed a bit.....I think.

I think I am a lot like you, Janet. At this stage in my life, I am more in the middle. My hubby and I are in transition mode right now. We are living in an apartment. So, it's not "ours" so I don't really care if things in it get messed up. The furniture is ours, so I do care about that stuff. But as far as the floors getting dirty from the dogs or the walls getting dinged or something, I could really care less.

Janet · 10-24-2006, 06:51 AM

You will definitely feel different once it's your own place. But still, as picky and nutso as I was about things when I was younger....that has changed somewhat. I would probably still be as wacko, but with the two guys here, it's a losing battle at times. I either had to relax a little or be a bi**h all the time.

rivermom · 10-24-2006, 07:54 AM

I watch that show weekly and I really can't compare with either side. They are both too radical for me. I am not one to keep a PERFECT house but it does stay clean.

I am not the other side of "wild/crazy" follow no rules, and fly by the seat of my pants kinda gal either.

I am just a simple woman who likes my quiet home, my fur kids, horse, and wine.

I am sure though I could never do a wife swap because Id have to murder the woman who ever came into my home to remove my fur kids. I just couldn't handle that.

RLC12345678 · 10-24-2006, 07:58 AM

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Originally Posted by rivermom

I watch that show weekly and I really can't compare with either side. They are both too radical for me. I am not one to keep a PERFECT house but it does stay clean.

I am not the other side of "wild/crazy" follow no rules, and fly by the seat of my pants kinda gal either.

I am just a simple woman who likes my quiet home, my fur kids, horse, and wine.

I am sure though I could never do a wife swap because Id have to murder the woman who ever came into my home to remove my fur kids. I just couldn't handle that.

Are you kidding? If I ever did Wife Swap I would be taking my furkids with me!

Janet · 10-24-2006, 08:05 AM

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Originally Posted by RLC12345678

Are you kidding? If I ever did Wife Swap I would be taking my furkids with me!

You got that right!! I could never leave them and worry about some anti-pet person coming in. If they were ever mistreated...I'd have to...well...I will never have to find out!!!

RLC12345678 · 10-24-2006, 08:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Janet

You got that right!! I could never leave them and worry about some anti-pet person coming in. If they were ever mistreated...I'd have to...well...I will never have to find out!!!

Yeah, me neither, Janet! I'll never have to find out!

rivermom · 10-24-2006, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by RLC12345678

Are you kidding? If I ever did Wife Swap I would be taking my furkids with me!

I never thought of that! Perfect idea!

Mandy · 10-25-2006, 01:28 AM

I would never dream of doing wife swapping, i like my home neat and tidy, i do a lot of cleaning and want my home to smell and feel fresh, but it's not perfect!
Anyone that would ever remove my furkids, or even think of removing them!! OMG i would slap the living daylights out of!! No no i would never let any stranger take care of them, and no i wouldnt take them with me, gosh that other house might be riddled with fleas or germs

EWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!

Willow · 11-01-2006, 09:02 AM

I don't think I fit either. I only watched this once and it made me angry to watch. The one I saw had a dairy farmer and a Southern Belle trade places. The dairy farm hubby missed his wife sooo much that he was crying plus the woman they switched and sent to him wouldn't let the kids help their dad in the barn and the kids were crying because they missed helping the dad and the "temporary" wife called it abuse and child labor. The poor kids were devestated and I have always wondered what kind of emotional trauma that stupid show caused those kids. The dad was crying because he had no help and was running the farm completely by himself and he told the camera he never realized before that how much his wife really did to help him and he couldn't wait to have her home. They had a really good relationship I think becuase she really couldn't wait to get home to him either. She was sick of dealing with the other woman's kids because they were spoiled brats who refused to even ride the schoolbus to school.

No, I do not like that show. I think it is detrimental to the families that have children. Think of the separation anxiety the kids and spouses go through. I could never do it. I would absolutely cause bodily harm to ANYONE who harmed my kids, physically or emotionally. I mean, one could only IMAGINE how they would treat my kids! Both fur and skin!

Emmsmom · 11-10-2006, 07:50 AM

Nope I couldn't do the show either! I would just loose it if some strange woman came in my house and treated my child and my dog like crap. THey really do have families that are on opposite ends of the stick. I am really laid back to a point but having a stranger LIVE in my house for a week would drive me insane!

Janet · 11-10-2006, 08:18 AM

My husband would probably like it...LOL, but my son, that's a different story. He is strong willed, but also very sensitive. If anyone hurt his feelings or made him feel bad about himself, would definitely have to answer to me. I'm not one for revenge on anyone or anything, but when it comes to my son (and my furbabies) they better be watching out!!!

DianaB · 11-10-2006, 08:27 AM

I wouldn't ever do that show either. You know that they're not going to pick people who are a like because that won't make an interesting show. They have to pick complete opposites. I wonder how many that do the show walk away going "Well, that was a fun experience. Let's do it again!" That dairy farmer sure wouldn't be saying it! I'm surprised that he agreed to do it. Dairy farming is a lot of work and it HAS to be done twice a day!!

10-24-2006, 05:12 AM	#1
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,624	Wife Swap/Trading Spouses I watched Wife Swap last night and it got me to thinking....oh no!!! Anyway..usually they have a wacko of varying degrees and then they have what you might call the straight shooter, rigid...etc. Which are you? I'm probably the wacko, if I had to choose one or the other. I'm not as rigid as the ones whose house has to be perfect at all time...child/children in everything under the sun..etc. I do like my house clean and most of the time it is, but it is never completely spotless. I am not on the go all the time either, I spend way to much time on the computer either here or YT. So which are you??? __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

10-24-2006, 06:13 AM	#2
RLC12345678 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,614	Well, unfortunately I think I am more on the rigid side. I have said this before on other posts, but I am somewhat of a germaphobe. I am beginning to think it is a problem. I also like to have everything in it's place and tidy. I don't have children yet, but with my furbabies, they have to be looking sharp at all times. I do the haircutting myself, so they are always groomed and bathed. I also HAVE to be on a schedule. When I don't have a schedule, I freak out and am a very unpleasant person to be around. Luckily, my husband is much the same way as I am so we make a pretty good team. But he is not a germaphobe like I, so that is something that I am currently working on because I know it can sometimes be ridiculous. __________________ Rebecca "To whom much is given, much is expected." ~Luke 12:48

10-24-2006, 06:51 AM	#5
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,624	You will definitely feel different once it's your own place. But still, as picky and nutso as I was about things when I was younger....that has changed somewhat. I would probably still be as wacko, but with the two guys here, it's a losing battle at times. I either had to relax a little or be a bi**h all the time. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

10-24-2006, 07:54 AM	#6
rivermom Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Tontitown, Arkansas Posts: 2,475	I watch that show weekly and I really can't compare with either side. They are both too radical for me. I am not one to keep a PERFECT house but it does stay clean. I am not the other side of "wild/crazy" follow no rules, and fly by the seat of my pants kinda gal either. I am just a simple woman who likes my quiet home, my fur kids, horse, and wine. I am sure though I could never do a wife swap because Id have to murder the woman who ever came into my home to remove my fur kids. I just couldn't handle that. __________________ ~_/> , /\/\ ,,, Sheryl When I grow up I want to be a horse whisperer!

10-25-2006, 01:28 AM	#11
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	I would never dream of doing wife swapping, i like my home neat and tidy, i do a lot of cleaning and want my home to smell and feel fresh, but it's not perfect! Anyone that would ever remove my furkids, or even think of removing them!! OMG i would slap the living daylights out of!! No no i would never let any stranger take care of them, and no i wouldnt take them with me, gosh that other house might be riddled with fleas or germs EWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!! __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

11-01-2006, 09:02 AM	#12
Willow Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 258	I don't think I fit either. I only watched this once and it made me angry to watch. The one I saw had a dairy farmer and a Southern Belle trade places. The dairy farm hubby missed his wife sooo much that he was crying plus the woman they switched and sent to him wouldn't let the kids help their dad in the barn and the kids were crying because they missed helping the dad and the "temporary" wife called it abuse and child labor. The poor kids were devestated and I have always wondered what kind of emotional trauma that stupid show caused those kids. The dad was crying because he had no help and was running the farm completely by himself and he told the camera he never realized before that how much his wife really did to help him and he couldn't wait to have her home. They had a really good relationship I think becuase she really couldn't wait to get home to him either. She was sick of dealing with the other woman's kids because they were spoiled brats who refused to even ride the schoolbus to school. No, I do not like that show. I think it is detrimental to the families that have children. Think of the separation anxiety the kids and spouses go through. I could never do it. I would absolutely cause bodily harm to ANYONE who harmed my kids, physically or emotionally. I mean, one could only IMAGINE how they would treat my kids! Both fur and skin!

11-10-2006, 07:50 AM	#13
Emmsmom Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 612	Nope I couldn't do the show either! I would just loose it if some strange woman came in my house and treated my child and my dog like crap. THey really do have families that are on opposite ends of the stick. I am really laid back to a point but having a stranger LIVE in my house for a week would drive me insane! __________________ MICHELLE

11-10-2006, 08:18 AM	#14
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,624	My husband would probably like it...LOL, but my son, that's a different story. He is strong willed, but also very sensitive. If anyone hurt his feelings or made him feel bad about himself, would definitely have to answer to me. I'm not one for revenge on anyone or anything, but when it comes to my son (and my furbabies) they better be watching out!!! __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

11-10-2006, 08:27 AM	#15
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	I wouldn't ever do that show either. You know that they're not going to pick people who are a like because that won't make an interesting show. They have to pick complete opposites. I wonder how many that do the show walk away going "Well, that was a fun experience. Let's do it again!" That dairy farmer sure wouldn't be saying it! I'm surprised that he agreed to do it. Dairy farming is a lot of work and it HAS to be done twice a day!! __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

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