so awkward...

[Mandy]

Originally Posted by Lindsey

You guys have made me feel so much better. Hopefully next week will be a different story. When she got up this morning she seemed really concerned and I told her the only hour of sleep I got all night was before she got here, and she wouldn't stop apologizing. She said she told my roommate to go to her house but he kept saying no, they'll be quiet here, and she told him she promised me she wouldn't come. But he won out because her car was only parked a block from here and she told him she knew I was gonna kill her. I guess that shows she understands it bothers me, but maybe just doesn't care as much as she cares about getting laid.
I went to first class today and another friend turned around and told me "You look TERRIBLE." so I told him I only had one hour of sleep. I asked why and the girl was like "Oh her dog kept her up all night"
After first class there was no point in being there, I didn't understand a thing that was going on, so I told her I was going home to sleep and she was like "I'll get your notes for you, it's the least i can do"... but she left right after I did.
I did catch up on 6 hours of sleep though, and I'm gonna go put something cold on my eyes so the puffiness goes down, and now that i'm in a better mood, hopefully i'll look better and feel better for the rest of the weekend!

Good for you!!!
Now if they start this crap again next week, tell him & her to go to HER house, they can wake the neighbours up there as far as you are concerned, but you need your sleep

[Lindsey]

Finally I got through! My friend and I spent some time together this weekend and she would not stop apologizing and begging me not to be mad at her, saying she would do anything. So I said okay, thinking I'll just see how this goes. Last night my roommate slept here, and she didn't come over. She told me today that he was begging her yesterday to come over and she told him "If you want anything from me, you can come here. I promised Lindsey I wouldn't go there anymore, and she might be just a roommate to you, but she's the only girlfriend I have here and I don't want to mess that up!"
I also let her know how much it hurt me when she used to talk about being with my boyfriend, and she apologized for that, too. She said she's so happy for us, and she's glad that she was part of bringing us together. If she knew the future at the time she was with him, she said she wouldn't have touched him.
Soooo I guess she's a better friend than I gave her credit for last week. I guess I'm kind of happy to have her back

[RLC12345678]

Originally Posted by Lindsey

Finally I got through! My friend and I spent some time together this weekend and she would not stop apologizing and begging me not to be mad at her, saying she would do anything. So I said okay, thinking I'll just see how this goes. Last night my roommate slept here, and she didn't come over. She told me today that he was begging her yesterday to come over and she told him "If you want anything from me, you can come here. I promised Lindsey I wouldn't go there anymore, and she might be just a roommate to you, but she's the only girlfriend I have here and I don't want to mess that up!"
I also let her know how much it hurt me when she used to talk about being with my boyfriend, and she apologized for that, too. She said she's so happy for us, and she's glad that she was part of bringing us together. If she knew the future at the time she was with him, she said she wouldn't have touched him.
Soooo I guess she's a better friend than I gave her credit for last week. I guess I'm kind of happy to have her back

I'm so happy to hear that she is finally respecting your feelings. She honestly probably just didn't know how you felt about the situation until you spoke with her about it. Now that she knows that you were upset, she is trying to correct her wrongdoings. Hope things continue to get better.

[Janet]

I'm so glad things are working out. COMMUNICATION is the key to almost any disagreement. If thinks can't get worked out, at least all the cards were on the table.

[Lindsey]

Me again! I thought the whole situation was better, but it's not. She said she was going to not come over all last week, but that only lasted monday, tuesday, and wednesday. My roommate will NOT sleep at her house, and apparently she will not go without sex. At least I had the weekend here alone to catch up on sleep. Last night I was just about to go to bed when I heard someone trying to turn the doorknob on my front door! It was locked, so then they knocked. I answered and it was her again. She came in and plopped down on a chair and made some small talk, and then went straight downstairs. So instead of going to bed, I had to sit up for a couple hours with the tv turned up loud so I couldn't hear anything. I woke up early and went to morning classes, and now I'm home for lunch and my roommate STILL isn't awake. He's so behind but he's going to ask for my notes and everything to catch up, and I'm too nice to say no I think I have to have a nap now so I can be awake for the afternoon.

[2tiredmom]

Just a thought maybe you should change the lock on your doors. But then she would just stand out banging on the door wanting in. Sorry bad idea.
I feel for you. But if your losing so much sleep you really do need to do something. It's not healthy for you to go without sleep.
2tiredmom

[Ponyup]

I'd threaten to tell everyone in class what's going on if they don't knock it off. They are not respecting you as a friend so why should you have to respect them.

Plus why don't they want people to know anyway. When I was dating I refused to date anyone that wanted our relationship kept a secret.