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01-12-2012, 09:08 AM
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Sorry, Linda. Try not to worry about your Dad and let your brother handle it. You know that he's doing the best that he can and he understands that you can't stay there for long because of responsibilities at home. I know that's hard but you need to take care of Linda as well. Hugs, GF!!!
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01-12-2012, 09:32 AM
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I'm sorry you have to go through all this Linda. I know how hard it is. Your brother just needs to understand that the house was your dad's and an investment for his future....not your brothers. Both of mine gave me hard times too, I guess it just comes with the territory being the only daughter, but it sucks.
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01-13-2012, 03:04 PM
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This is too bad, Linda! What alternative does your brother have to offer? It doesn't sound like he has any! It is too bad he will lose the house, but this is such a common thing. My ex MIL went through the same thing, but didn't have to sell the house. They might have taken the money owed from the sale of the house after she passed on.
I have the papers to fill out and have to find out how to put my house in Jessica's name. I would like to have control over it, but I have no idea what the laws are. My union will help me for free, so I betteer get to it. I sure hope your Dad feels better soon. That's really the only important thing.
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01-14-2012, 06:36 PM
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Linda....any update on your Dad? Has he been released to rehab yet? My prayers are with you!
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01-16-2012, 06:37 PM
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Thanks everyone. Dad is in the Nursing home now. He is taking therapy twice a day for 6 days. Then rest on Sunday. The first couple of days there were tough. He didn't remember being in the Hospital and having surgery. My brother seems to think he can go bck to living by himself. THere is noway. Only time will tell. Thanks again everyone for your support.
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01-16-2012, 06:44 PM
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I'm sure everyone is relief his in a safe place. XOXO
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01-16-2012, 07:19 PM
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What nursing home is he in Linda? I think your brother is in denial, don't you think? As times goes on and he gets reports from the staff, he come to realize that it wouldn't be safe for your dad to be anywhere else. I'm sorry you have to go through this. ((((hugs))))
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