What's Going On........

[paula1961]

I am so happy to hear that Dae Lyn and Damon were approved for their loan. Wishing them and their little family all the best!

[DianaB]

It's official!! They were approved for the loan!! I'm so excited for them. The only thing is they are approved for a higher interest rate but if Glen would co-sign for them the bank would give them an even better interest rate. This was something that the bank offered because Glen is a good customer. In the end it would save them $100 a month or $20,000 over the next 20 years. I had talked to Glen about co-signing for them before and he said that he wouldn't do it so I'm not sure if he will or not. Glen told Dae Lynn that he'll have to get approval from the rest of the family before he'll do it. I'm really upset with him. We just seem to be on opposite sides of everything anymore.

Janet, is your house still for rent??? Just kidding.......I think. I'm getting pretty fed up.

[Janet]

That sucks Diana...why is it any of the rest of the families business? Is Glen going to have them show Dae Lynn their finances? Tell him he's wrong...then run!

Sorry Diana but we have rented the house. They move in next weekend. BUT......I'll kick Rick out and you can have his room....lol

I'm so happy for Dae Lynn and Damon, I really hope this is the beginning of a much better relationship for them and that the dreams they have come true.

[DIANE W]

Diana.... i am so happy for Dae Lynn and Damon, i am praying that this gives him the stability he needs and he shows everyone that doubted him, that he is going to do good.

I bet she is so excited, she can now plan some of the rooms, and it will be good for them to be alone as a family too.

Regarding Glen.... maybe he just has doubts about Damon's commitment and is afraid he will end up footing the bill, if things go wrong with them again? I am only guessing, and maybe he is afraid the other family members will say he is favoring Dae Lynn, in some way.
Maybe they should just accept to pay the higher rate, and then in a few years, when they are prooved at the bank, they can re-mortgage for a better rate of loan. That way it ramains none of the families business, they will have done it all on their own.

Oh Diana, i so hope it all works out and the family can get settled, and you can get your house back too.

[JJJ]

Diana I know it's rough but I wouldn't sign either, there two adults and they need to take care of their finances. It's his credit on risk so I don't blame him one bit.

I started with high interest and in a few years like Diane say's they can go get a better rate.

[DianaB]

Diane......you've hit the nail on the head!! That's exactly what's going on.

Glen has talked to Feyn and Amy's family and they were very supportive of them getting the house. I was surprised but happy about that.

The thing now is whether Glen will sign or not.......and he and Dae Lynn are in the kitchen right now debating on the issue. I'm staying out of it. It's Glen's decision because if I put my two cents in it may come back and bite me in the butt later and I would NEVER hear the end of it. I'll be glad when this is all said and done.

One thing about Dae Lynn is she can hold her ground with Glen. She's telling him like it is.......wish all of you could hear her telling him about stuff!!!

[Janet]

You all did a great job with Dae Lynn. I sure wish I had her determination!

[DIANE W]

Originally Posted by DianaB

Diane......you've hit the nail on the head!! That's exactly what's going on.

Glen has talked to Feyn and Amy's family and they were very supportive of them getting the house. I was surprised but happy about that.

The thing now is whether Glen will sign or not.......and he and Dae Lynn are in the kitchen right now debating on the issue. I'm staying out of it. It's Glen's decision because if I put my two cents in it may come back and bite me in the butt later and I would NEVER hear the end of it. I'll be glad when this is all said and done.

One thing about Dae Lynn is she can hold her ground with Glen. She's telling him like it is.......wish all of you could hear her telling him about stuff!!!

I am sure they will work it out one way or the other, I do sort of see it from Glen's point of view, (i have told you before - you are far more forgiving than i am), it is hard, i am sure he would do anything for Dae Lynn, but its not just her is it, in this instance, and Damon has a lot of work to do getting the respect and love back. It will take time, but either way - they will have their own HOME, and that is a brilliant thing for them as a family and you too.