Do You Say "I Love You" When You Leave?

Janet · 03-30-2007, 03:48 PM

Nope not every time, very seldom...Only if I feel it.

rivermom · 03-30-2007, 04:01 PM

Yup, sure do! Say it in the morning as I am leaving for the dental run. I hear "drive safe, love ya!" "Right back atcha" is usually my reply.

Then I hear it through out the day - and on the phone.

It's just something him and I do.

Life is short - Saying "I love you" makes ya feel good in all ways!

Even one of my girl friends, Shellie. Her and I say I love you after our phone conversations. My other girlfriends and I don't say it often, just once in a great while.

No matter what tone one uses to say "I love you" it always sounds good.

Try it! Try yelling out in a bad ol loud sound "I love you" See...it still sounds nice doesn't it? LOL

It even sounds better when softly spoken real slllooowww.

AngieDoogles · 03-30-2007, 04:04 PM

I do. Every time.

I just feel so much love for him that it makes me happy to say it. He's the same way. Guess that's just one more reason we are perfect for each other...

2tiredmom · 03-30-2007, 04:57 PM

I tell my husband everynight before I go to sleep and every morning when I wake up. I also tell my kids every time I talk to them on the phone or if they are home before i go to bed.

Mandy · 03-30-2007, 11:42 PM

Ok... for me its kinda, how can i say - - im not into the wishy washy mushy smoochy kind of stuff, BUT we do say it daily, when my husband leaves he says "i love ya, have a nice day" my reply "back at ya, and be safe" now... all depending on my mood, if i write out a card to anyone, whether its my brother, husband or other family, i put down a whole list of why i love them, and what they mean to me. I do the same with friends.

RLC12345678 · 03-31-2007, 06:25 AM

My hubby and I say it every morning before we leave the house, throughout the day when we get off the phone wtih each other, and every night before bed.

DianaB · 03-31-2007, 07:53 AM

We say it all the time, not only to each other but also to the kids and grandkids. My Mom hardly ever said that she loved me and when she did it was always so sentimental. I said that I would say it all the time to my family and that it would be easy to say. We're a very loving family!

AngieDoogles · 03-31-2007, 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Mandy

Ok... for me its kinda, how can i say - - im not into the wishy washy mushy smoochy kind of stuff, BUT we do say it daily, when my husband leaves he says "i love ya, have a nice day" my reply "back at ya, and be safe" now... all depending on my mood, if i write out a card to anyone, whether its my brother, husband or other family, i put down a whole list of why i love them, and what they mean to me. I do the same with friends.

I'm the opposite Mandy...a hopeless romantic. I love the wishy washy mushy smoochy stuff. lol

I can't believe I was lucky enough to find someone just as crazy about that stuff as I am.

Chandra Amaya · 03-31-2007, 01:11 PM

We do say it EVERY time one of us leaves the house or when we hang up the phone. To both each other & our kids.
Why? because that's how we feel & if something were to happen that that was the last time we saw or heard that person's voice, I want I love you to be the last words I said. If I didn't say it & something happened that my hubby or one of my kids didn't make it back home that day, I would never forgive myself or wonder if they knew I love them.

cindy0721 · 04-03-2007, 07:51 AM

yup.. everyday even when we are mad....lol... and he says it back... usually he is the one that tells me every morning.. love you .. and then a big ol wet kiss... lol... and we say it through out the day too.... and right before bed and during the night if one wakes up for a drink of water or whatever.... I dunno it's always been our thing with each other.. we can be on opposite rooms of the couch watching tv and out of nowhere one of us will say.. " I love you babe or hunny "..... I am glad we have that and I still get that little tingling feeling hearing him say that even after 5 yrs married and 7 together...lol..

AngieDoogles · 04-03-2007, 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by cindy0721

I am glad we have that and I still get that little tingling feeling hearing him say that even after 5 yrs married and 7 together...lol..

That's how I feel too Cindy. It's wonderful.

judy · 04-05-2007, 12:47 PM

I'm living by myself right now as far as humans go. I live with Max, my little Yorkie, who I say "I LOVE YOU" to whenever I leave, before he goes to sleep and from time to time during the day.

I have a friend whose husband told her that he always does whatever she asks him to because you never know when your time is up and he would never want her to remember him as not doing something she wanted or needed if he died. How sweet is that? Needless to say, they have a good marriage. I think that's why saying "I love you" often is important.

Judy

AngieDoogles · 04-05-2007, 12:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by judy

I'm living by myself right now as far as humans go. I live with Max, my little Yorkie, who I say "I LOVE YOU" to whenever I leave, before he goes to sleep and from time to time during the day.

I have a friend whose husband told her that he always does whatever she asks him to because you never know when your time is up and he would never want her to remember him as not doing something she wanted or needed if he died. How sweet is that? Needless to say, they have a good marriage. I think that's why saying "I love you" often is important.

Judy

Aww! That's so sweet. It sounds like they have a wonderful relationship. As for Max, I'm sure he just loves being the center of your attention!!

What a lucky dog...

03-30-2007, 03:48 PM	#1
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Nope not every time, very seldom...Only if I feel it. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

03-30-2007, 04:01 PM	#2
rivermom Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Tontitown, Arkansas Posts: 2,475	Yup, sure do! Say it in the morning as I am leaving for the dental run. I hear "drive safe, love ya!" "Right back atcha" is usually my reply. Then I hear it through out the day - and on the phone. It's just something him and I do. Life is short - Saying "I love you" makes ya feel good in all ways! Even one of my girl friends, Shellie. Her and I say I love you after our phone conversations. My other girlfriends and I don't say it often, just once in a great while. No matter what tone one uses to say "I love you" it always sounds good. Try it! Try yelling out in a bad ol loud sound "I love you" See...it still sounds nice doesn't it? LOL It even sounds better when softly spoken real slllooowww. __________________ ~_/> , /\/\ ,,, Sheryl When I grow up I want to be a horse whisperer!

03-30-2007, 04:04 PM	#3
AngieDoogles Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 6,509	I do. Every time. I just feel so much love for him that it makes me happy to say it. He's the same way. Guess that's just one more reason we are perfect for each other... __________________ "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." ~MT

03-30-2007, 04:57 PM	#4
2tiredmom Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 1,367	I tell my husband everynight before I go to sleep and every morning when I wake up. I also tell my kids every time I talk to them on the phone or if they are home before i go to bed. __________________ The real measure of a woman's wealth is what she has invested in eternity. Linda aka 2tiredmom

03-30-2007, 11:42 PM	#5
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	Ok... for me its kinda, how can i say - - im not into the wishy washy mushy smoochy kind of stuff, BUT we do say it daily, when my husband leaves he says "i love ya, have a nice day" my reply "back at ya, and be safe" now... all depending on my mood, if i write out a card to anyone, whether its my brother, husband or other family, i put down a whole list of why i love them, and what they mean to me. I do the same with friends. __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

03-31-2007, 06:25 AM	#6
RLC12345678 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,614	My hubby and I say it every morning before we leave the house, throughout the day when we get off the phone wtih each other, and every night before bed. __________________ Rebecca "To whom much is given, much is expected." ~Luke 12:48

03-31-2007, 07:53 AM	#7
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	We say it all the time, not only to each other but also to the kids and grandkids. My Mom hardly ever said that she loved me and when she did it was always so sentimental. I said that I would say it all the time to my family and that it would be easy to say. We're a very loving family! __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

03-31-2007, 01:11 PM	#9
Chandra Amaya 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Tn Posts: 1,646	We do say it EVERY time one of us leaves the house or when we hang up the phone. To both each other & our kids. Why? because that's how we feel & if something were to happen that that was the last time we saw or heard that person's voice, I want I love you to be the last words I said. If I didn't say it & something happened that my hubby or one of my kids didn't make it back home that day, I would never forgive myself or wonder if they knew I love them. __________________ Traci

04-03-2007, 07:51 AM	#10
cindy0721 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Lone Star State Posts: 389	yup.. everyday even when we are mad....lol... and he says it back... usually he is the one that tells me every morning.. love you .. and then a big ol wet kiss... lol... and we say it through out the day too.... and right before bed and during the night if one wakes up for a drink of water or whatever.... I dunno it's always been our thing with each other.. we can be on opposite rooms of the couch watching tv and out of nowhere one of us will say.. " I love you babe or hunny "..... I am glad we have that and I still get that little tingling feeling hearing him say that even after 5 yrs married and 7 together...lol.. __________________ Cindy " My mechanic told me, "I couldn't repair your brakes, so I made your horn louder." Last edited by cindy0721; 04-03-2007 at 07:54 AM.

04-05-2007, 12:47 PM	#12
judy Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Denver, NY Posts: 8,097	I'm living by myself right now as far as humans go. I live with Max, my little Yorkie, who I say "I LOVE YOU" to whenever I leave, before he goes to sleep and from time to time during the day. I have a friend whose husband told her that he always does whatever she asks him to because you never know when your time is up and he would never want her to remember him as not doing something she wanted or needed if he died. How sweet is that? Needless to say, they have a good marriage. I think that's why saying "I love you" often is important. Judy

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