Jessie is mad at me, and there's nothing I can do!

[DianaB]

I think that you've had a great plan all along. Moving close but not too close to your daughter is a well thought out plan. You can be there in a jiffy for anything major and pick when you think that you're needed to be there for the other times. It sounds like your daughter's felling the effects of MS right now and is tired of everything that she's dealing with and is taking it out on you. I say that you should stick to your plan. You thought it through when there wasn't any pressure and decided what would be best for you.