Jessie is mad at me, and there's nothing I can do!

[judy]

Originally Posted by DianaB

I think that you've had a great plan all along. Moving close but not too close to your daughter is a well thought out plan. You can be there in a jiffy for anything major and pick when you think that you're needed to be there for the other times. It sounds like your daughter's felling the effects of MS right now and is tired of everything that she's dealing with and is taking it out on you. I say that you should stick to your plan. You thought it through when there wasn't any pressure and decided what would be best for you.

Thank you all for your support!

Diana, I know she's feeling especially overwhelmed right now, and I should just take it as that, but she pushed some buttons. I'm so tired of her thinking that I don't do enough. It really hurts and then it turns intro anger on my part.

She also has a history of not calling me for a long time after one of us gets angry at the other, and I'm so scared that she'll go another 3 years. She's
also supposed to come into Manhattan tomorrow to the doctor and I was going to meet her in the city.

I really do need all of your hugs!