Any suggestions for the newly divorced

[Chandra Amaya]

I think the best thing she could have is caring family and friends. I have been through something similar although I was not married for nearly as long. My first husband choose drugs over me and the first three kids. My exboyfriend ... We lived together for five years and had what i thought to be the perfect relationship until he moved his new GF in and I was homless with three kids. I did something for me after both. Something I wanted but would not spend the money on. I got my navel pierced after my first husband moved out and got my tongue peirced after my ex bf. I have neither peircing now but it made me feel good. i loved it then. Maybe she could be encouraged to do something for herself or go on a trip with just her and her son. Go out with some friends. Anything to keep her from locking herself away inside the house and feeling bad.