To Have or To Not Have Kids

[Janet]

How can I bring something I love more than anything into a world that could be miserable & full of fear & pain. I've searched & asked for a better reason to procreate than the fact I really want to or society expects me too. This one choice will affect the life completely of another human being.

The only real answer I have to your questions is...your child may be the child that leads us to something better....he/she may be the one to make all the difference. If it's meant to be...you'll know.