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Old 09-07-2006, 02:47 PM   #1
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That's sick! Some people are so rude and TRASHY!
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Old 09-07-2006, 06:48 PM   #2
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I would just tell her how you feel if she has a problem with it then she should find somewhere else to do it. I'm sorry you have to go through this.
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Old 09-07-2006, 07:07 PM   #3
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Any chance that you can find another place to live or ask your roomie to leave?
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Old 09-07-2006, 07:38 PM   #4
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I think she felt bad about it finally, she told me she would try to get him to go to her house tonight so i could get some sleep, but if he wouldn't then she'd be here again. I wish I could tell her to get her hormones in check! Moving out isn't an option for me or my roommate unfortunately. I first moved in with the help of my parents and their truck with all my furniture, and my roommate had to get some of our friends with trucks to help him move all his stuff. It's just a hassle when we're both only staying in this city until the middle of december when we both graduate. I guess I'll have to grumpily live with it until then.
Today after school my roommate fell fast asleep in his room downstairs because he didn't sleep last night, and obviously neither did I. It's a little childish of me but I let him know how it feels in a less disturbing way, I turned on the tv loudly and then kept heavily walking up and down the squeaky stairs to do laundry. It didn't take him long to wake up
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Old 09-07-2006, 11:59 PM   #5
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apparently the whole plan of going to her house tonight didn't work out, and I had an awesome sleep for an hour until my little watchdog decided to let me know someone was entering the house by barking loud enough to wake up the neighborhood, and sure enough, there's her shoes at the front door and there's the sex noises coming from downstairs.
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Old 09-08-2006, 02:19 AM   #6
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sorry guys, i have nobody else to talk to at this hour. I have to wake up for school in 2 and a half hours and I have slept a total of ONE hour tonight. I think I'm too upset to fall asleep again at all. So on 1-3 hours of sleep tonight I get to go to a full day of school including projects and assignments, and then get in a car with the person who is causing me not to sleep, and pretend to be all nice and normal while driving 2 hours to where her parents live and my boyfriend lives. I have to be there in time to watch my boyfriend play a volleyball game from the deck of a noisy bar, and then go straight to a giant loud "indoor beach party" that I look forward to every year and just spent $36 on a ticket for.
How can I have the energy to be a fun, happy girlfriend and not mope around and sleep all weekend? How am I going to drive two hours on so little sleep?
And in my crazy sleepy state I can't stop thinking about how she slept with my boyfriend. When I hear her down with my roommate, I can't stop picturing her with my boyfriend. She was so open with me about it, I unwillingly listened to her throw into regular conversations what position they were in, how long it lasted, how good it was for her... Okay now I'm bawling again.
It's not his fault, he didn't even know me then. He regrets it, he says it's the biggest mistake he's made, it meant nothing. He's so good to me, I don't want it to get between us, and I wish I could forget about it but I have this reminder EVERY SINGLE NIGHT. In one week she has went from being one of my closest friends to someone I never want to see again.
I'm rambling
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Old 09-08-2006, 03:26 AM   #7
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Oh girl, i'm sorry i didnt know it was this bad!!

Speak to your BF about it this weekend, tell him how you feel and all that's bothering you.
The things your "friend" is doing to you, is not very nice of her!!
Quite honestly, i think your friend and room mate are disgusting!!

Have a safe drive, take your time, and when you get there, go have a nice long hot bubble bath.
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Old 09-21-2006, 04:10 AM   #8
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So sad you have to deal with this. Our society has gotten so bad!!

My thought was....could you trade roommates? She likes yours and hers might be a quieter kind of guy who wants to rest and study like you do.

Just a thought....
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Old 09-21-2006, 05:37 AM   #9
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We couldn't trade roommates, because then their little secret would be out. Plus she lives in a house with 3 other people and pays wayyyy less rent than I do. And her house is pretty much known as the party house. I ended up taking enough tylenol last night to knock me out so I got three hours of sleep.
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Old 09-21-2006, 08:15 PM   #10
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We couldn't trade roommates, because then their little secret would be out. Plus she lives in a house with 3 other people and pays wayyyy less rent than I do. And her house is pretty much known as the party house. I ended up taking enough tylenol last night to knock me out so I got three hours of sleep.
Girl, you've got to make a change for your health. Careful with the Tylenol. It's safe in proper doses, easy on the stomach, but is actually a very dangerous drug and can be very toxic if you take too much. It can cause liver damage and there is no antidote for an overdose.
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